Is it weird for me to constantly seek improvement and yet I’m super impulsive and not always the best at thinking things through? I keep making mistakes that I really regret but I can’t fix them but I still try and somehow it feels empty, I feel hollow when I try to fix my mistakes because I know that I can’t so why do I try and fail over and over again?
I keep fucking up…
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It isn’t. You are human you are gonna fuck up. You are doing well cuz you are trying to improve. Maybe talk to your friends and ask them to encourage you to do better.Wish you the best.
Not weird at all—it means you care. Trying, even when it feels empty, is still growth. Mistakes don’t cancel progress. Keep going
because you simply don’t know how to operate system u were given, most people don’t. that’s the answer.
You are not broken you are just battling the war between who you are and who you’re desperate to become. Keep trying because even if it feels hollow now consistency carves redemption where regret once lived.
First, it takes a lot of guts to want to even better yourself. Give yourself some credit there.
Second, progress isn’t binary. It ebbs and flows. You’re going to have periods where you improve and you’re going to backslide. As long as it’s always a net positive, you’re doing just fine.
Remember – two steps forward and one step back is still one step forward.
We learn more from failure than from success. Keep going, you’re improving with every mistake.