I (M20) think girlfriend (F20) is ignoring me

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Hi, its me for a third time. These weeks i notice gf is very less talkative in chat with me, and barely sends me any reels or tiktoks. exams are coming for both of us (she studies medicine) so i understand perhaps she is busy, but i notice that she has liked some posts on either insta and tiktok (reposts) but she has only seen my messages without responding for several hours.

before it was because of stress but always responded to my messaged and didnt repost or liked any post it was clear she was studying, but now i have a feeling she is purposely ignoring me without even hiding it.

im afraid to talk with her for a problems i have with her cuz she has strong reactions to my problems towards her “you only complain about me” “i have the feeling you do it on purpose to fight each other”. so i dont know how to approach this without causing a fight, also dont want to disturb her “exam stress”. what should i do?

TL;DR Have a feeling girlfriend is ignoring me, should i approach her about this.

Comments

  1. General-Zombie5075 Avatar

    You are going to get caught in a feedback loop of shit if you attempt to try and fix this now.

    She doesn’t have time to send you reels due to exams but you think she WILL have time to do a deep dive into your relationship and work on your security issues?

    Just hold on till after exams are done and then open this can of worms.