I have been with her for a while. She’s been amazing. Our relationship is amazing. I left last Friday with my unit. Before I left she grabbed my face, looked me in my eyes and told me she would be right here waiting on me to get back.
Everyday that I’ve been gone she’s sent me pictures, loving texts, sweet notes etc. She’s been so supportive and made me feel so secure.
Last night she sent a text that said “You’re the most amazing man I could ever ask for. Thirty six minutes later, out of the blue, she sent “Im sorry I cant do this. I know this hurts but I cant be in this relationship.”
She offered no context. Has responded to no messages. She did assure me in the text that there was no one else and that she wasn’t leaving me to be with anyone.
How do I do this? How do I go forward from this and concentrate on my job. I just lost everything that mattered.
Im shattered.
Comments
Welcome to /r/relationship_advice. Please make sure you read our rules here. We’d like to take this time to remind users that:
We do not allow any type of am I the asshole? or situations/content involving minors
We do not allow users to privately message other users based on their posts here. Users found to be engaging in this conduct will be banned. We highly encourage OP to turn off the ability to be privately messaged in their settings.
Any sort of namecalling, insults,etc will result in the comment being removed and the user being banned. (Including but not limited to: slut, bitch, whore, for the streets, etc. It does not matter to whom you are referring.)
ALL advice given must be good, ethical advice. Joke advice or advice that is conspiratorial or just plain terrible will be removed, and users my be subject to a ban.
No referencing hateful subreddits and/or their rhetoric. Examples include, but is not limited to: red/blue/black/purplepill, PUA, FDS, MGTOW, etc. This includes, but is not limited to, referring to people as alpha/beta, calling yourself or users “friend-zoned”, referring to people as Chads, Tyrones, or Staceys, pick-me’s, or pornsick. Any infractions of this rule will result in a ban. This is not an all-inclusive list.
All bans in this subreddit are permanent. You don’t get a free pass.
Anyone found to be directly messaging users for any reason whatsoever will be banned.
What we cannot give advice on: rants, unsolicited advice, medical conditions/advice, mental illness, letters to an ex, “body counts” or number of sexual partners, legal problems, financial problems, situations involving minors, and/or abuse (violence, sexual, emotional etc). All of these will be removed and locked. This is not an all-inclusive list.
If you have any questions, please message the mods
This is an automatic comment that appears on all posts. This comment does not necessarily mean your post violates any rules.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
Sounds like a typical Army Problem, move on what else can you do?