I need help to confirm if my brothers a creep. My brother M25 has been messaging my little sister, F13.
My sister hit puberty at a young age, giving her a “figure”
My younger sister has autism and she vapes, (due to being with bad friends etc ) however she asked my brother to buy her one and without question he said yes princess? He doesn’t call any of us that (3 other sisters including me F14-18. ) he was messaging her on Snapchat on what flavor she wants, but the topic moved to him asking her to send snaps. When she said she can’t he told her to go to the bathroom?
He also told her to not tell us but thank god she did. He sent her a snap and it resembled heavily of a b@!!sack..? | would show it here but I’m not sure of the guidelines here – if anyone could confirm it for me that would be awesome thank you.
This isn’t the first time he’s been called out for being creepy, but my family babies him as their oldest son, dismissing all the signs.
When I was younger we got into an argument which ended with him saying he would grpe me. This was also looked
over being defended as “graped with words” I seriously don’t know what to do.
I have proof if anyone would like to see
I need help with my brother. I think he’s creeping on us
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This is highly inappropriate and not ok. I suggest speaking with an adult outside the family and asking them for help. The police, a teacher, the counsellor at school etc.
This isn’t “weird,” it’s a crime. Tell an adult, the police, anyone. Don’t keep quiet. Save your sister
Definitely sounds like he’s a creep. Stay close and support each other. Especially if your parents don’t want to see it, protect each other. He may act out in other ways tbh. But start collecting evidence as well. Eventually distancing yourself and sisters from him may be best
For all i could know neither your sister nor your brother is in their right mind, Get your sister to quit vaping or she dies a young age. She could ask some other creep for vapes too.
Your brother’s insane, You dont need confirmation anymore just ghost him or something, He is definitely trying to fool or even gr*om your sister, As a Big brother, that guy is something I can’t even imagine myself as someone like him, Instead of regretting later, be Cautious now.
I don’t get why so many people are focused on the vaping here? Sure she’s underage but I think most kids are doing it nowadays… Just like kids experimented with smoking and drinking when I was a young teen. The real issue is your brother. He is definitely a creep and he’s using the vape as a way to build trust and to keep things “secret” between the two of them. He obviously isn’t well in the head and needs stopping. Definitely tell an adult. If you feel it’s safe to approach him initially and warn him then that’s your call but by the sounds of it he’s got an awful temper and sounds dangerous. Be careful either way and good luck. Sorry you’re going through this.
Talk to a teacher at your school and at your sister’s school if she is at a different one.
This needs to be handled by responsible adults