I am 15 years old. I’ve never had anyone ever have a crush on me, not one, ever. I just feel so miserable and i just want advice on what to do. I am truly searching for ways to improve, but i need a base of like what is attractive and what i should be doing. Please help
I need serious help
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Honestly, waiting for someone to like you without building yourself is a trap. Chase your passions, sharpen your confidence because people crave what’s rare not what’s waiting.
You shouldn’t make it your goal to turn yourself into someone that someone else will find attractive.
Figure out who you are and be yourself. When you are authentic and you like the person you are, then the right people will show up and be attracted to you.
People are attracted to people who are real and genuine, not people who just want to be liked.
Be yourself and be the person you want to be and you’ll attract people who love you for who you are. Be your own flower and you’ll attract the pollinators best suited to you.
“Don’t chase, attract.” It may take time, but yeah. Do NOT try to turn yourself into something you think other people want because you will NOT attract people who actually love you for who you are.
Definitely find something you love and dedicate yourself to it. Any person that you actually want to be with will take/already have an interest in the things you like & you can bond deeply over it!!
I always found my deepest connections started off as friendships!
I felt this way my entire school career. But now I’m in a happy 7 year long relationship that I’ve had since high school and never been happier. It’ll find you too my bro
Don’t try to mold yourself into what you think someone will want. Be yourself, chase your passions like the previous commenter said. Eventually the right person will like you for who you are. I was nearly twice your age when I met my wife, we’ve been married for over a decade and I never thought I’d get married till I met her. You have so much life ahead of you, don’t fret over it.
True love finds you when it’s supposed to. Don’t fall into the social pressure of having someone in your teenage years
I’m assuming that you’re a guy. Just try to be kind to others around you and don’t try to start arguments or fuck with people for no reason. Try to have good conversations and be able to have lots of fun with those around you. Make sure you have good hygeine and are physically attractive. It’s summer, so it’s a better time to work out and get tan than ever. Share your passions or things you like. I’ll be honest it’s pretty rare for a girl to have a crush on you and tell you. I’m the same age as you and have had several girls like me over last couple years, i kinda do the same thing where I wait for others to come to me. For me though it’s cuz I genuinely dont give af I just take advantage of the oppurtunity most the time. Just be confident and kind hearted and improve on yourself.
ive met 31 year one women who have never been touched nor loved, dont lose hope jus be patient