For context me and my partner do not currently live together i have 3 kids [F10] [F8] [F4] and we have a child together [F6mnth] all the girls call him dad.
We spend every second weekend at his house and are only able to be there from Friday 4pm until Sunday 1pm.
Yesterday he told me that on our weekend together he will be going to an airshow 3 hours drive one way on Saturday (our only full day together) me and the kids are not invited but he wants me to still come for the weekend and just stay at his house wile he is gone. I have recently had shoulder surgery so can’t drive it will cost me $60 in ubers for the wrekend and I also find it very hard to change my youngest daughters nappy atm we have ended up in a huge argument because I think he shouldn’t go we only have 2 days a fortnight together and he will be gone for 1 of those day this is also the last weekend we will be able to spend together over night so I assumed we would make it a special one but he doesn’t think i have a right to be angry because he is going with his family (his sister d her kids) but i thought we were also apart of ‘his family’
TL;DR: What would you do if you were in my situation and am I in the wrong for getting mad at him?
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It’s bizarre he makes you move 5 people for family weekends instead of just coming to see you.
He should be helping you after surgery,
He should be caring for his own child.
Why are you and his kid not on his list of priories?