I’m really craving a parental figure right now because I’m scared out of my mind. my grandma is my best friend. we found out three days ago she had cancer and it’s bad. extremely bad. we might already be in the end of life stage and that’s terrifying. because of everything that’s been going on (including me losing my job) I can’t afford rent or costs to go to see my grandma and she has no body. i don’t have anybody either. my parents always told me never let yourself look weak. my parents always said never beg for anything, never ask for handouts, don’t show anyone you’re struggling nobody likes that. because of how scared I am, I made a GoFundM for the position that I’m in and I feel so guilty for asking for help. I’m scared and I have no idea what to do anymore. I spent my entire life taking care of my parents and when I became an adult they all left me. I don’t know how to work through any of this.
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