okay so i (19f) was working at a job about 2 year ago now, it was a decent job with decent pay however the reason i really liked my job was because of my boss (25m) we got on very well and would flirt often. it got to the point where we would message outside of work and texts would get more flirtatious- lets just say we both werent recieving just texts, anyhow, we were going great for a solid 7 months, keeping eachother a secret so no one in the work place would find out( or so i thought) any way fast forward to month 8 he was distant and i was confused so i voiced my concerns and he decided after 8 months of us, he is just a flirtatious person and i mean nothing to him :/ so i was fairly upset (as you would be) but then i remembered something from the very first week that we met ( my work training ) he had a girlfriend. The entire time. I felt stupid however i couldnt get him out of my head, i still love that man to this day and he knows it, we exchanged ‘i love you’ often, So he knew exactly how i felt, but everything always happens for a reason. so i have recently quit my job and have since moved states. I still want that man though.