I never cooked rice right for men who didn’t deserve it

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I have multiple ex’s who thought I couldn’t cook well. Specifically rice, I was constantly serving them undercooked rice and acting like I tried my best.

But I didn’t.

Some people deserve unseasoned, crunchy, half cooked rice.

The men who treated me like a person always got good rice. And then when they’d bring it up, they’d sound crazy and like they were making up petty rumors because everyone else knew I make good rice.

Comments

  1. THE_27thJudith Avatar

    Takin notes📝

  2. No_Advantage1921 Avatar

    Yes.. đŸ™ŒđŸ»

  3. LeEpicBoykisser Avatar

    Why’d you even date them at that point?

  4. Used_Rhubarb_9265 Avatar

    The ones who treated me right got the best rice. 

  5. avid-learner-bot Avatar

    Oh boy… Undercooked rice, it’s like serving up a heaping side of disappointment with that meal. I can see why some folks wouldn’t put up with subpar carbs, especially if the cook (me included) is trying to make an excuse rather than just owning up and saying “oops”

  6. Ok-Branch-974 Avatar

    Of all the things that never happened….

  7. _SamHandwich_ Avatar

    Perhaps one of the least creative ways to ever “teach someone a lesson”… Just tell them to GTFO of your life if they were so bad.

  8. No_Assumption_1529 Avatar

    Well, I would have treated you better if you didn’t feed me hard rice

  9. ElBolilloKitian Avatar

    So instead of dumping a shitty partner, you put up with them just so you can feed them undercooked rice with the intention of wanting to listen to them complain about the undercooked rice? Bat shit crazy right there.

  10. KardashevZero Avatar

    Mfers really be dating people that don’t treat them like a human being. The lack of self respect is unreal

  11. bumblebragg Avatar

    Can I ask what you do to make perfect rice? I hate rice cookers because it always has a crunchy bottom of wasted rice. When I cook a small amount in a small pot it turns out perfect. If I try to make more than a cup or in a bigger pot I get gummy chewy rice. I rinse first and use 2 to 1 water to rice on high till it boils and then cover and turn to low.

  12. seimalau Avatar

    Or you could just leave them and be on your way.

  13. Nunyobizwax Avatar

    Lol that’s crazy, but totally agree with you.

  14. Feonadist Avatar

    Take your rice and leave

  15. GymAndPizzza Avatar

    Instead of breaking up with them, you just made their dinner awful? And then let them talk about how bad your cooking was ? But continued to date them ??

    Are you actually insane ? 😂😂

  16. Dry-Score-7083 Avatar

    It’s fine. All of the women who didn’t treat me like a person, I’d fix things around the house to squeak more, not less, and changed the oil on their car wrong.

  17. SongRevolutionary992 Avatar

    Well … You sure showed them

  18. Rooster0778 Avatar

    What a waste of time and effort.

  19. BreakfastAmazing7766 Avatar

    Why even waste your energy cooking
.why even date them 😭 so many unanswered questina

  20. Far_Construction7986 Avatar

    This is crazy people behavior.

  21. DistrictMotor Avatar

    I happen to like under Cook rice. So crunchy

  22. Connect-Idea-1944 Avatar

    this is so crazy that it’s actually funny lmao, how do you get this idea, out of all the torture that exists in the world 😂

  23. margarita_mariner Avatar

    Haha silly goose. Everytime you lie about who you are and what you can do you become a little less authentic 

  24. eurydice1727 Avatar

    This is hilarious. I do recommend just leaving tho lol

  25. odorlessphotograph Avatar

    Surely this can’t be the only thing OP do to them

  26. LastPalpitation9576 Avatar

    Old coonass from deep south Louisiana, the first time u would have undercooked my medium grain rice, I would have feed it to the turtle and showed u the correct way to cook sum rice….

  27. Mindless_Bonus_552 Avatar

    This is hilarious.

  28. Pattern_Is_Movement Avatar

    why are you wasting time with men you don’t want to be with?

  29. Deven1003 Avatar

    why do you date with numerous people who does not deserve even rice? genuine question here

  30. cadillaccosmonaut Avatar

    This reads like an ancient proverb

  31. koi_wants_a_nap Avatar

    Good for you 😌👏👏 Personally, I wouldn’t even waste my rice on someone who doesn’t deserve it. But YES, MAKE THEM GO CRAZY AND LEAVE 🙌

  32. IamMooz Avatar

    This some petty shit I can get behind.

  33. Hungry_World_573 Avatar

    Mental illness at its peak. Also fake.

  34. Just-A-Watering-Can Avatar

    Lmao this just reminded me of my co worker

    His Japanese MIL (90F) lives with them, and she’s pretty much a rice connoisseur, so she’s always in charge of cooking the rice. Whenever she’s pissed she serves them half cooked rice and would go like “oh the rice cooker is broken again” or “you bought bad rice”

  35. Brief-Translator1370 Avatar

    Sounds like you might have been the one that didn’t deserve it

  36. indicabunny Avatar

    I fully support this. Revenge is best done slowly and gradually. Chip away at their soul one undercooked rice meal at a time.

  37. TheDollDiaries Avatar

    This is pure madness yo. How do u even come up w something like this 😭

  38. QuailDifficult4273 Avatar

    this is so fucking funny why didn’t you just dump them lmao

  39. SoggyDay1213 Avatar

    Why would you stay with them, how unhinged lol

  40. Azula-the-firelord Avatar

    Sounds like you have more serious issues if you have been with “multiple” exes, that didn’t treat you right.

  41. BeginningDue8093 Avatar

    Why didn’t you just kick them to the curb. I don’t cook for NOBODY that can’t respect me

  42. jdgrazia Avatar

    It’s weird that you were willing to serve people fucked up rice. But you weren’t willing to break up with them?

    It doesn’t surprise me that you ended up in toxic situations.

  43. adriftin_thecosmos Avatar

    Wait…Do these ex’s start treating you badly before you start dating? Why would you decide to date someone who doesn’t treat you like a person let alone start cooking for them?

  44. sseymer82 Avatar

    So all these Men think you are dumb and can’t cook simple rice. Wow, you really showed them

  45. CruelTasteOfLust Avatar

    They didn’t deserve your cooking girl

  46. Smart-Host9436 Avatar

    That’s a level of pettiness that gives me a weird boner.

  47. ArsonProbable Avatar

    This is the pinnacle of stupidity.

  48. freakofnatur Avatar

    this screams peak crazy

  49. bestlifeever-NOT Avatar

    It’s ok.

    If you try, and it still comes out shitty, take it as a sign. If he can’t appreciate that you took time and energy to cook for him when it comes out bad, he probably won’t appreciate it if it comes out good.

    How much energy anyone has and puts into caring for themself (self love) or someone else (generosity) should always be appreciated.

    People don’t appreciate anything anymore.

  50. MissJillian- Avatar

    Fair enough I say. That’s cute 😅

  51. Salt-Way282 Avatar

    i love being petty but this is honestly just a waste of food-

  52. rolloutTheTrash Avatar

    I wouldn’t waste rice like that myself. It did nothing wrong.

  53. Tempo_changes13 Avatar

    This is pretty silly so instead of just breaking up with them you jst cook them shitty meals? Why? Why go through all that if they’re treating u like shit anyways? I’ll never understand this mentality.

  54. WornBlueCarpet Avatar

    You’re exposing yourself as a fool for even dating these men. And that we’re talking men, plural, just makes you a bigger fool.

  55. H13R0G1YPH Avatar

    A lot of people are calling you stupid but congrats for letting that be as toxic as it got on your part

  56. No-Buyer-6278 Avatar

    Well you were the one cooking for them and servicing their knobs so who’s the real loser here?

  57. Quintic Avatar

    Why would you serve rice to someone who doesn’t treat you like a person?

    Do you think that instead of a person, they treated you like someone who serves them hard rice?

  58. I_need_a_date_plz Avatar

    
this is weird. Why not just have some dignity and break up with these assholes?

  59. Todano Avatar

    This guy I’m seeing eats his rice unwashed, not cooked properly and adds mayonnaise to it. It would feel like a crime at this point to cook him proper rice. I think I’d rather eat that slop than intentionally date someone I don’t like just to cook them rice

  60. WebBorn2622 Avatar

    Yes girl gaslight them back đŸ‘đŸ»đŸ‘đŸ»

  61. Jim___Jam Avatar

    Not really the flex you might think it is. Hope you are with someone who gets the good rice now

  62. Hot_Scientist8187 Avatar

    A better alternative would have been breaking up like a grown and mature adult. 

  63. AVEnjoyer Avatar

    passive aggressive.. willful ignorance.. like, you have a mental health problem.. spiteful is not admirable

    If that’s the level of power you feel in your life, giving shit food to people you’re with for some reason but don’t like… what are you doing… and you’re 50 you say? god damn

    Sooner or later you have to heal your inner child and grow up fuck me

  64. mc_69_73 Avatar

    Strange flex, but alright!

  65. Outrageous_Level3492 Avatar

    I’m going to suggest this now to anyone who is stuck cohabiting with an unwanted partner until the lease ends. It’s the perfect way to encourage them to disengage without actually starting arguments yet. 

  66. Pixie-elf Avatar

    Uncle Roger is angry and he doesn’t know why.

  67. Educational_Deer7757 Avatar

    Life’s too short for stupid games.

  68. HugeAli Avatar

    If you don’t like him just leave him. Why bother making his life miserable?

  69. No_Raccoon_2387 Avatar

    A looooooot of men in these comments suddenly preaching high road behavior because they hear women doing revenge things even as barely as OP did and know it’s a slippery slope

  70. wariorld Avatar

    This is sexy. Not even kidding. I can’t even pinpoint why.

  71. JackOfAllStraits Avatar

    But … when the relationship was getting started wouldn’t you have cooked good rice, so they would already know that you’re capable of cooking a basic staple? Like, they should have a good idea of what your cooking is like normally unless you start the relationship hating each other, in which case you’re both bonkers to begin with. Or do you cook shitty rice for everyone until you “really” like them? And why bother cooking them anything any more if you don’t want to be together?

  72. Key-Alternative5387 Avatar

    You can just break up with them instead of giving them bad cooking.

  73. External_Ad_1476 Avatar

    The fuck is wrong with you?

  74. Chiopista Avatar

    This is an affront to rice my dear. 🙁 Them grains don’t deserve that.

  75. yooq2 Avatar

    wouldn’t you also eat the undercooked rice…?

  76. Vegetable_Jicama_181 Avatar

    I think u have serious issues

  77. RiveriaFantasia Avatar

    I don’t understand why you’d pretend not to be good at cooking, I wouldn’t give anyone the satisfaction of thinking I can’t cook when I can. Those exes would have been all smug thinking your cooking is crap.

    I remember cooking for a nasty piece of work, obviously didn’t realise how nasty he was at the time. He really liked the food but when things turned nasty tried to make me believe I couldn’t cook. He was abusive and twisted the truth, trying to put me down about everything. I feel smug that he knew my cooking was good and even said as much but then tried to twist it and pretend it wasn’t. This was an example of how he lied and gaslighted. Had I cooked badly that would have been good for him because if he tried to use that put me down it would be true.

    Much better to always stay true to yourself let people see that you’re good at stuff (not to impress them just be who you are) and let them stew in their juices being annoyed about how good you are at stuff so when they try to knock you down both you and them know it’s crap and they don’t have a leg to stand on.

  78. Key_Try_6621 Avatar

    HAHAHAHA I LOVE THIS.

  79. ThatThingTheDarkSoul Avatar

    Why even cook for someone that doesn’t treat you like a person

  80. playertd Avatar

    You’re allowed to be bad at cooking rice lol that story ain’t it