I never seem to make it work 25M

r/

I been seeing this person for a while and everything was going smoothly for few weeks until today when we sat down and talked more about our relationship moving forward, I explained to her (F22) that I want to settle down within 2 years , I got my house (paid off) car and a decent job ,those as what my culture sees as the minimum requirements to ask for a girl hand in marriage, I talked to her about and she told me I give out way too many red flags as a guy and I made her uncomfortable by talking to her about this and we shouldn’t discuss our plans for how this relationship will go, I explained my side that I am ok with waiting more and I am not putting any rush on her but i am just explaining what I want and how things i wanted to be, after she started saying that we shouldn’t keep going and me as a guy give out way too many red flags and she doesn’t see me as someone she wants to spend time with , to be clear she never mentioned anything or told me that I did/said something I shouldn’t, even when I do mess up , I am fine with apologieing and trying to sort it out than let it build up , I even ask if I made her uncomfortable at times and she never said yes and to be clear as a guy i am not scary or short temper i am barely 155cm and she is about 180cm , so she would easily tower me 😅🤐, regardless i asked more what red flags i gave out she refused to tell me and started shutting off , i offered to take her to eat somewhere to help her feel better but she refused , and asked be taken home , i drive her home and when she got out and i said see you later she responded with “No” and walked away , i didn’t know what to do besides just going home , i got home and she blocked me on everything.

TL;DR
M25
F22
We been seeing eachother for weeks

I am still unsure what I did wrong or how can I even fix this
Any help would be appreciated

Comments

  1. Designer_Currency455 Avatar

    Lmfao man youre gonna encounter this a lot I find it’s so common

  2. Ahoeaboutnothing Avatar

    You didn’t do anything wrong. She’s imagining red flags at this point lol. You dodged a bullet. Go get a better woman.