I once got ghosted by someone who said communication was the most important thing.

(This was several yrs ago)
I started talking with this guy that had been in my life sporadically for 15+ years (friend of a friend but there had always been a little spark between us).

He lived far from me but I was moving to his city and we started talking more and more and we were really into eachother. HE brought up a possible future (living together at some point, future vacation places, maybe getting a dog one day).

He told me his main problem with the women he dated was communication. Communication was the most important thing to him. I agreed. It wasn’t top of my list but definitely top 3.

Then he ghosted me lol

He stopped texting out of the blue. A week or so later he finally replied saying “I think we are looking for different things”.

It’s because I said something about wanting to find my person that I can grow old with. So instead of COMMUNICATING his concerns/feelings/questions… he ignored me for a week.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha