Is there something wrong with me (F25) or is this normal in long tearm relationships? I used to be apple to appreciate people’s attractiveness but over the last year I genuinely don’t see it in anyone but my bf. Like i look at other ppl like im looking at family or brothers. I understand that he doesn’t have the exact same views but somewhere in the ball park. And that’s completely fine and normal. But why am I this different? Does anyone feel the same way?? Is my brain messed up to only think my bf is hot and EVEY other guy or girl is just like a family member. Or is there something wrong with me
TL;DR I’m only attracted to my bf and eveyone else is ugly
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Means you’re in love, enjoy it!
Oxytocin is a dangerous drug, lol
Not a typo for the pharmaceutical oxy, but the hormone
I tend to be the same way. In a relationship, I don’t get the same feelings about another attractive person, not even the super attractive celeb types
But I am single as a pringle and sometimes I find certain people distractingly attractive, like when I go to concerts for the music but end up figuratively drooling instead
I’m the same way. I don’t find anyone else attractive, not in that way at least. I can acknowledge that someone looks nice or pretty or handsome, but not in a way that attracts ME to them in anyway. I honestly kinda like this about myself even though it’s not something I do on purpose it’s just how I am 🤷🏽♀️