I pretend not to notice things all the time. Never important things but the small things

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So I have a bad memory after having a few head injuries. I’ve found people get mad when I forget things despite knowing I have memory issues at times. It is getting better as time passes but its still not fantastic. Often tho I’ve started a habbit of pretending not to notice small things because now people can’t get mad at me for forgetting something if they think I didn’t know about it in the first place. Probably makes me a shitty person but I’m tired of people getting upset with me for something I have zero memory of. I wish I could remember where I placed stuff from myself let alone being ask to remember some small detail about a game they were playing something or a character in a movie