I 22M quit dating about 6 months ago because my ex girl cheated on me after a year and a half. Before her I could not even get a chance to talk to any girl because I was being and still am shot down at every oportunity. Having a near 100% rejection rate to even say lets hang out and being instantly shot down like I am a creep is no longer my thing. I tried and tried again and again and it goes nowhere. My family insists that I need to work well on myself but I have been working on myself for the past 3 years and still nothing. Women now always want more and there is nothing they get satisfied with. They always want something more. I guess I am not good enough for anyone to date any longer. Probably nobody will reply but still I am here to listen to any and all comments regarding this situation i am at.
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If you keep working on yourself, you almost certainly will gain attention from women. It’s up to you if you still want that. After my glow up, I definitely didn’t.
Friend, what makes you happy?
I stopped having relationships in 2012. Best decision I’ve made for myself in a long time. They really aren’t worth the bullshit that comes with them, in my opinion.
I feel for all young people in today’s day and time! Everything is so f’d up! People are so weird nowadays.
>My family insists that I need to work well on myself but I have been working on myself for the past 3 years and still nothing.
Buddy, you are practically still a child. I mean that in the nicest way possible. You know that blink-182 song where it goes “nobody likes you when you’re 23” (JK I know you don’t know it bc you’re a fetus) but seriously you are still young, you still have so much growing to do and so much to find out about yourself. You don’t need to go running around looking for a girlfriend, just be yourself and let yourself grow and see what happens. That might mean you’re single for a few years and that’s good.
I understand your feelings but from a brother to another just whatever you do don’t get into that misogynistic manosphere and RP chaos.
It’s not that bad. Just go on dating apps and swipe, talk for a good week to get to know them then if they seem cool ask if they want to meet up sometimes. Then it’s all up to your game, if you have any (with your confidence I doubt it)
Do I have a podcast for you bro.
https://youtu.be/li70iz1NaDY?si=cI1NoD8OOHoL6FqW
Join the club bro lol