Hi everyone,
About a month ago I (M22) met a girl (F20). She was perfect to me — brilliant smile, deep eyes, funny, ambitious, sporty. We started spending time together and for a few weeks I really felt something strong. I honestly thought she could be the right person for me.
Things seemed to be going really well. Even her friends supported us. But suddenly, she started acting distant. I asked her what was wrong and she told me I’m a sweet, kind guy, but she’s not ready for a relationship, especially a long-distance one. She said: I like you a lot but you deserve better and I can’t give you what you want.
I respect her honesty, but I just can’t make sense of how quickly things changed. We even went out just a few days ago, and it felt good — at least for me. Now I feel lost, I asked her for additional reasons and she didn’t even answer me. Now I see her she pretends not to see me and doesn’t greet me anymore. I still believe there might be a chance, even though she says she’s not ready.
I guess I just want to know:
How can someone like you not be ready for a relationship? Or is it just a softer way of saying you don’t want a relationship with me? How can I move on? Should I let her go?
TL;DR; : We go out for a month, we were good together, but suddenly she told me that i deserve better and that she is not ready. how do i move on? should I let her go?.
Comments
It honestly doesn’t matter. She said she doesn’t want a relationship right now and the outcome is the same whether it’s because she’s not ready or because she doesn’t want to be with you. It’s over. Let her go. Sometimes things just don’t work out.