I’m sorry for the bad english,it’s not my first language.
Ok,so basically me (17f) and my boyfriend (18m) were hanging out at his home,when things got a bit spicy,and he ended up fingering me,then when I got up and went to the toilet I realised that I bled. Initially I thought that it was my period,but the blood stopped really quick. Like I bled in the toilet and that’s all. I know this sounds stupid as fuck,but is there a probabilily that I lost my v-card? Oh,and also this was my first time when I got something “inside”,i don’t know if this detail helps. I can’t ask my parents because they are really strict and religious. Please don’t laugh at me,I am not very good educated on this kind of things.
I really need some advice
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im pretty sure thats normal you should be fine
Remember that a finger has fingetnails, and can scratch. Your vagina is not accustomed to having something inserted, and you may tear from the stretching.
This is not unusual and is nothing to worry about unless the bleeding is heavy or you have soreness that does not resolve within a day or so. If that is the case, see a doctor.
maybe he broke your hymen? this usually happens for the first time during sex but if it’s ur first time getting smth like inserted it was probably that. should be nothing to worry about!! stay safe girl ❤️❤️
It is normal to bleed a tad on your first (or even subsequent) penetrations. But since you are newly exploring, be sure that when the time comes that your BF wears a condom. Every time, no “I’m gonna pull out” no ‘one time won’t matter’. ALWAYS HAVE YOUR PARTNER WEAR A CONDOM