I recently had a “behind the scenes” private tour of a crematorium. AMA

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I have a friend who owns a cemetery and crematorium. I was walked through the entire process, from how bodies are stored/prepped, to metal scraps, to how they get the perfect texture for the ashes. I am still processing this visit, someone’s remains were in the process of cremation while I was there. I learned so much and although it was overwhelming, it was quite interesting.

Let me answer some of your morbid curiosity… Ask away!

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  1. Most_Imagination8480 Avatar

    I’ve got my brother in a box. Surprisingly heavy. It’s not ashes is it? I’d guess bone

  2. KimmyWex1972 Avatar

    Do people who work in those types of places have a twisted sense of humour? I would think you would have to a little bit, or the job would be very depressing. Genuinely curious.

  3. KE55 Avatar

    So is the process all automated, or is there a lot of manual work involved?

  4. punnybunny520 Avatar

    I heard they don’t hire men at these places a lot. Was it mostly women working?

  5. Gawthique Avatar

    Is it dangerous to share the room with a corpse ?

  6. DespyHasNiceCans Avatar

    How did the incinerator room smell?

  7. Personal-Listen-4941 Avatar

    A strange question I’ve never been able to ask anyone before. I know that the “ovens” are separate from the ceremony part of the crematorium. But they have services booked back to back. How long does the actual cremation process take and are there multiple ovens being used at once?

  8. Basket_475 Avatar

    Why? Was it just something you wanted?

  9. Spankydafrogg Avatar

    Did your friend have a reverence for people’s remains more than the excitement of showing you how it all works?

  10. Resident_Course_3342 Avatar

    Did they let you take some people home as a suvionier?

  11. WickedHello Avatar

    I hate to ask, but… what did it smell like?

  12. yourmommasfriend Avatar

    Why can’t you come back if ypure cremated…ypud have to have a new body anyway…rotting skeletons can’t be revived

  13. ray_ruex Avatar

    What happens to all of the metal like fillings rods and pins and screws and other devices that don’t burn.

    Do people ever have body parts like from amputation or joint replacement. So they could keep it with the body for future disposal