I did the opposite. A girl fell hard! Said she thought she would marry me after one or two dates. I tried to break up with her and establish a friendship of some kind, but all it did is drag things out painfully.
Ghosting sucks, it’s not always admirable, but sometimes it’s necessary to eject cleanly
I’ve been on the receiving end of this, it is truly a cruel and unusual punishment. In the end, I put myself back together stronger than I was before. If it is any solace to you, I’d reckon she is doing fine. Everyone deserves forgiveness and happiness if they truly feel remorse.
Yeah that’s super not cool! Depending on the situation, she might like to hear from you. But without knowing the details I’d say just leave it be at this point.
In life sometimes we must learn the hard way how unfair the game is. BUT we must also learn that everything that goes around comes around. Do come back when it comes back around ☺️
i did this too and
it kills me to this day!!
I really want to beg her for forgiveness, she is now happily married with a couple of kids
and i don’t want to remind her of me and cause more pain
i’ve had something similar, only i was pregnant with his son. he left me for his ex who was also pregnant – BY SOMEONE ELSE. honestly if i never heard from him again i would have been fine but unfortunately, he used to reignite the spark every few months or so. and it killed me. took any and all of my self esteem, i relapsed after a year and a half sober, i ended up losing the baby- which was even more traumatic. don’t bother getting in touch – chances are it will be taken the wrong way and what if she assumes that you are trying to make a half ass attempt at a relationship AGAIN? don’t get her hopes up and all that shit.
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Sometimes life is unfair ,,,anyone ??
It sounds like you’ve done the necessary growth. I don’t think there’s much to do beyond learning from your mistakes and being better.
You can’t make someone fall in love with you. She clearly is just in her own head and doesn’t even really see you – just her own fantasy.
Get over yourself…
I did the opposite. A girl fell hard! Said she thought she would marry me after one or two dates. I tried to break up with her and establish a friendship of some kind, but all it did is drag things out painfully.
Ghosting sucks, it’s not always admirable, but sometimes it’s necessary to eject cleanly
I’m commenting for karma
I’ve been on the receiving end of this, it is truly a cruel and unusual punishment. In the end, I put myself back together stronger than I was before. If it is any solace to you, I’d reckon she is doing fine. Everyone deserves forgiveness and happiness if they truly feel remorse.
You’ll probably make bigger mistakes eventually. I mean I hope not, but probably so
Apologize to her
Yeah that’s super not cool! Depending on the situation, she might like to hear from you. But without knowing the details I’d say just leave it be at this point.
this is sad, to fall for someone who is not willing to catch you
When we want we can fix things
Gross Dude!
In life sometimes we must learn the hard way how unfair the game is. BUT we must also learn that everything that goes around comes around. Do come back when it comes back around ☺️
Why? For what purpose? What did you get out of it?
Why did you do it?
i did this too and
it kills me to this day!!
I really want to beg her for forgiveness, she is now happily married with a couple of kids
and i don’t want to remind her of me and cause more pain
i’ve had something similar, only i was pregnant with his son. he left me for his ex who was also pregnant – BY SOMEONE ELSE. honestly if i never heard from him again i would have been fine but unfortunately, he used to reignite the spark every few months or so. and it killed me. took any and all of my self esteem, i relapsed after a year and a half sober, i ended up losing the baby- which was even more traumatic. don’t bother getting in touch – chances are it will be taken the wrong way and what if she assumes that you are trying to make a half ass attempt at a relationship AGAIN? don’t get her hopes up and all that shit.
I don’t think you can make her love you. Maybe you tricked her into it by lying and faking something she likes about you.
oh so you are a ghost
We can’t all be good people.