I’ve seen a lot of Youtube videos about renting girlfriends and boyfriends in Japan, but as a girl who likes girls, I was super curious if I could rent a girlfriend! Lucky for me, I had a Japanese friend who went on a deep dive into Japanese rental services and helped me find an AMAZING girlfriend! I honestly had such a wonderful time and think a lot more people could benefit from this service – so feel free to ask me about it!
(You can also watch the full date on my YT channel)
I Rented a Girlfriend in Japan (As a Woman & Foreigner) – AMA
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What does the renting involve? I assume physical intimacy is not included -it’s just someone to hang around with?
What is the average price ? (asking for a friend of course)
So an escort?
Favorite kind of cheese?
Do you intend on actually answering any of the questions?
How far do these services go?
Let’s say I had this really wild hair up my ass and I wanted to rent a girlfriend and then I rented a boyfriend at the same time and I wanted this full on sordid triangle where they both would fight over me passionately but then ~p l o t t w i s t~ they fell in love with each other and I wanted to see them both become desperate in the throes of each other’s arms using intensity to try to forget about me and cursing my name the whole time but then they find out I am secretly dying so they become guilt ridden and do what they can for me then I hire another guy who looks like Stephen Lang to burst in and call them both pieces of shit and he rescues me.
Can they do that? Serious question
How casual did the date feel? What about the cuddle session?
Just to give more context, i’ve been on a mission to date women and experience intimacy with women, in all sorts of way. I really recommend this for girls like me who are bi-curious but haven’t had many chances to experience it yet!
So did their affection towards you feel genuine or artificial?
I’m curious if the girlfriend you hired was interested in women herself. Did you request a woman who was interested in women, or was the service you used specifically for queer women?
Is there banging involved?
Interesting.
How did you find this service and how did you find this specific lady? Were you able to choose from a lineup?
What her ad page look like? What photos, how many and what description? And what made u want to pick her over the other ads u saw?
Are you allowed to smash?
Ersties is underrated imo. Sorry, not a question. This just made me think I should’ve been a professional cuddler lol
Did you create this AMA just to promote your YT channel?
Did you scissor?
I read from the comments that you quite liked her and enjoyed it. Aren’t you afraid to develop feelings for her? For me that would be my biggest fear. I mean idk how much time you spent with her, but I assume you can rebook the same person many times. Love at first sight or huge crushes can also happen. To me the possibility that it will never be able to go further kinda ruins it. But anyway how do you deal with that? Do you miss her after? What if you fall in love?
Is this an ad for your porn website ersties?
Can I hire one with my gf?? Like a three way fun date. That would be very fun.
Nah that’s just sad. Just get a real one.
This should be in the passportbro sub.
Filming yourself when picking up escorts is next level even for that gang
How much money was it?
Which do you like better? Chicken or John Wick movies
Okay but…why?
Elaborate on how more people could benefit from this service ?
I think these services are a really great tool that has serious therapeutic benefits. Esp for people that feel tortured or frustrated by loneliness.
I think it could prevent a lot of bad things. Imagine if incel mass shooters had access to this. I could legitimately see it helping defuse the situation and help them integrate back into society and positive mental health.
And honestly, we have an epidemic of lonely people right now. (At least from my experience in the states). I have a LOT of middle aged friends who openly tell me that they are lonely, that could really benefit from this.
One of my friends has Asperger’s , and he can not land a date to save his life. Poor guy just always comes off awkward (and creepy if you don’t know him). He’s harmless and frankly a great person. but man, that dude could really use something like this to boost his confidence.
Do you have a good relationship with your father?
Did they speak English?
You simply booked a sex worker for a “date course”. No shit she was super friendly and accommodating. This is not wacky Japan at all.
Dystopian. Must be so draining for the rented lady.
Why has nobody asked this yet?
Do you speak Japanese? Did she speak English? How did you communicate?
Did it include…..everything?
This is really interesting, and sweet. It’s nice to know you had a lovely experience. Any grief when it was over or was it like regular end-of-vacation blues?
Edit: thank you! Great AMAs are priceless. I love reading about things I will never experience for one reason or another.
Any bed activity (besides cuddling) allowed?
What did you discuss with her?
What ?? I’m going to Japan soon how could I do this as well. Sounds fun and interesting.
This honestly sounds like a great way to learn a little more about navigating Japan. I wouldn’t so much want it to be a date but more like a “rent a friend who will show you around and not (obviously) judge you”. I’ve only been to Japan once but if I’d had the chance for something like this I think I might have felt a little more comfortable and explored a bit more – as well as had some less awkward interactions because I didn’t know what I was doing and probably came across as a clueless westerner stumbling around feeling lost. Kind of like a personal etiquette coach and guide.
Curious if they have men who go on “dates” with other men
How much did it cost and is it worth it to you?
How is this any different than an escort in the west?
Using AMA as an ad platform for youtube.
Plleeeeaaseee, can you play with your rented partner fighting in bed? Why no one asked that?
Its a porn add
Did they have sex with you or was it more like just a companion?