Tinder is very scummy and there’s something you have to take into consideration which happened to me, I had tinder and found someone and we felt things are going well and we decided to be exclusive and delete the dating apps we had, and I had 3 matches at the time and 1 like, about a month passes and things didn’t work out and we broke up so I got back on the apps and reinstalled tinder and lo and behold I had 6 matches and 8 likes without the app being on my phone.
The issue is if you don’t delete your profile and just uninstall the app your profile still shows up to other people, which is why people usually swipe hundreds or thousands of profiles before getting a match because people in general don’t bother deleting their profile and just uninstall the app which isn’t enough, so if your SO used to have tinder before then yeah they’re gonna show up on the app and doesn’t necessarily mean they’re cheating on you.
I saw a recent post here about someone seeing their gf on tinder and I have a small piece of advice after I read the comments that seems like people don’t know
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People forget how scummy these companies are, if their algorithm thinks you are good “padding”, they will keep your profile up as long as they legally can.
Yep same thing happened to me years ago with match. Exs sister saw profile and told her she saw me online. Hat do some serious damage control when I had done nothing wrong. These sites are scummy.
I think users forget that not accessing their account does not equal deactivating it. Dude, if you don’t log into your email, you still get messages.