So today I get a request for my NSFW content and during the transaction this person expresses they can not use the same payment method as I or any other, except OF website because if they do, their partner would find out and that isnt what they need. Why am I telling you this? Because I think this is called maturing or growing up? I had decided just about 3 weeks ago I’m not going to use OF anymore because they fund Israel Lobbyists Halls. Whatever they are called, anyways $11 million dollars, that doesn’t line up with my morals and values, I absolutely will NOT give 20% of my earnings to a company who supports the genocide happening today. My brain at first with this situation: “just charge more on OF to make it worth my while, ohhh… Wait.. that still gives 20% to the company no matter what? Wtf” -cracks up at my thinking patterns- My brain the second wave of thought on the situation: “well that’s okay, I know a couple on the low payment apps I can tell them about that doesn’t take my 20% or fund genocide and would stay on the low for them.” Then comes the third wave of thought on the situation.. “would I feel okay if the partner found out and knew I helped the person cheat, would I feel okay regardless if they found out or not, just knowing I helped?” My answer is No I would not feel okay about that.
I am not finacially stable and money is a must for everyday life, and leaving the platform after finding that out has left me kinda in a mess. That’s my own fault, I know, I get it. (A lesson here is always have another source of income if you work in this type of industry, because alot of the times it’s NOT stable, and very shady.) Passing up the money (in regards to recommending them on the low apps) is hard due to knowing it wouldn’t physically be an issue for me, unless the partner found me and kicked my ass, LMFAO. It doesn’t affect me really??? People cheat all the time and it’s not my duty to supervise their relationship, it’s my duty to make my money for my own, that’s it. I’m not saying any of this trying to brag on myself or make myself seem like I’m some angel, because I’m for sure not. BUT I am growing up and I am maturing, atleast enough not to pull it along by giving app references or closing my eyes when it comes to my own values and not contributing to things I’m not okay with. So I will NOT suggest apps to the person, I WILL not resort back to the website. I will take the loss and sleep good about it, because once that moneys gone, the feeling still sticks.
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Good for you! I remember not too long ago when I left a very high paying job because I was mistreated so terribly that I would wake up every morning and cry/want to die — just because I had to go to work. I was so proud of myself when I resigned 3 months later. I needed the money but I respected myself and my values more. I still think back to this fondly.
I hope you carry this feeling with you and that your choices based on a good moral compass only lead to more success for you, friend.
Yes, you should be proud. Not enough people have good morals these days. Good on ya!
I’m proud of you for knowing what you believe in and sticking to it. You can find other income streams. You are awesome OP!
This is definitely a scam.