I normally wouldn’t be hurt by this, I can understand that some people just don’t want to drink.
But I know my best friends love JELLO-shots,
and we were all drinking together to celebrate. But still, no one even touched the JELLO-shots I made. No one even mentioned them. I brought multiple trays over.
This Isn’t the first time one of them has completely disregarded a gift I’ve made them, or food I’ve brought to an event.
Just confusing, and a little hurtful.
They always seem to appreciate whenever anyone else does it, but when I do- it’s just 🤷♀️
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So stop bringing gifts over. They don’t deserve your effort.
No offense but this sounds like a “you fail”. Did you pull them out of the fridge and announce to the group that you had them? And they…ignored you?
This works every time in my group.
Or did you just leave them in the fridge expecting people to notice and make a big deal? I don’t understand.
Why are you trying so hard?
First – if it actually took you 4 hours to make Jell-O shots, then you aren’t making them correctly.
Second – they don’t want your gifts and food, so stop bringing them. They aren’t really gifts anyway, if you expect some big show in return.
Are you a gross person? Maybe nobody wants to eat anything you prepare for a reason? Not trying to be mean, just putting it out there.
Right. It’s… peculiar. The feeling of putting effort into something, a gesture meant to bring joy, and being met with silence, with a complete absence of acknowledgment. I mean, it is jarring. Perhaps there’s a lesson here: maybe some people don’t actually value what we do, and continuing to offer it could be counterproductive. Should we adjust our approach then? It’s a tricky situation, but I guess it signals that effort might not be appreciated. And sometimes, the best thing to do is to turn that energy elsewhere, you know? Because it’s kinda frustrating when you’re trying to be nice and nothing happens
I hate that feeling! I’m sorry that you had to feel like that. Next time maybe just bring the vodka? That’s always a crowd pleaser lol.
this is weird
Hello shots in the freezer in fifteen minutes
why did it take four hours to make jello shots lol
did you bring them out and everyone ignored you? or did you expect someone to do that for you?
Do you have animals in your house, Is your house untidy, or anything like that? My wife and I refuse to eat things from certain people we know because we know how unsanitary they are or know they have cats that use the litter box and then prance all around on top of the cabinets and tables.
This may not be the case but if it is maybe something like this is the reason.
If it were my friends I would’ve just asked. Why the hell isn’t anyone taking my jello shots? That’s what good friends do. They communicate.
I find Jell-O shots hard to eat and I look foolish when I try, maybe everyone else also has a weird reason they don’t prefer them
People still do jello shots?
Hello is half cold half hot water. Us half whipped cream vodka and half water, best jello shots ever then say hey fuckers I slaved offer this take one with me, that recipe is a half a shot per so you can eat a bunch. Most people fear strong ass jello shots. Also though very annoying to make so maybe just don’t make jello shots in the future
You sound like a good friend!