I can feel myself drifting away from him. I’ve literally sat him down and told him I’m not happy, and explained it in detail but he seems to think that conversation was all we needed along with our living situation changing.
I asked for couples therapy, and instead he asks me for children every second day. We live in a share house.
Every day I think I’m coming closer to leaving him.
But I’m scared I will regret not having children. Even though logically I know having children with him would be the worst mistake of my life..
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Be strong OP. You will regret having children with the wrong person more than you would regret not having them.
Sooooo leave him and have children with someone else that’s worthy
If you can’t make it work without the stress of kids, kids are just going to make everything worse.
You’ll likely end up a single parent either way if you do it with someone you’re not happy with.
Leave quick before you get pregnant.
He knows and chooses not to change.
Protect your birth control and leave.
People are having kids much later these days. Having a kid with someone you actively want to walk away from doesn’t make sense. It will make things harder and will not fix anything.