So like… idk if I’m being dramatic or what but something clicked today and now I can’t stop thinking about it. I’ve known this girl since middle school, we’ve been through everything together, sleepovers, drama, breakups, all that. I always thought she was my ride or die. But lately it’s just been feeling so one-sided.
Like today I was talking about this internship I might get and she straight up ignored me mid-sentence to talk about some random TikTok her coworker sent. Didn’t even ask me about it again after. And it’s not the first time… every time something good happens to me, she either changes the subject or finds a way to make it about her. But if she has something to vent about, I’m all ears for like 2 hours straight.
I also realized she never hypes me up. Ever. Like when I post a cute pic or do something cool, nothing. No comment, no text, not even a like sometimes. But she’ll go gas up random girls she barely talks to. I know it sounds petty but damn, it hurts.
Idk. I think what’s messing me up the most is realizing I’ve been putting in all this energy into a friendship that maybe hasn’t been real in a long time. And it’s not like we fought or anything, it’s just… this quiet shift where I feel small around her now. Invisible, even.
I don’t even think she notices.
Anyway yeah, just needed to say that somewhere.
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That sucks! I’m sorry. Maybe give her some space, or just ask her what’s up. Find out why, it might be something you’d never have thought of.
I wouldn’t say she hates you. Maybe she is no longer really interested in the friendship with you. That sadly happens. Might even happen several times in your life. It’s a sad thing but sadly an unavoidable one.
I’ve also been thru this lowkey. All I can say is… start your grieving now. That’s all the closure you need. Start accepting that’s who she really is.
You deserve better and now is the time to love yourself even more! quality over quantity. I’d rather sit at an empty table than a fake one
I wish people would be more honest when they aren’t feeling like continuing a friendship anymore.