For a long time, I was an incel because I was born very unattractive. I started to despise women after I went to the gym, took care of my hair, and fit new clothes. I still got rejected after multiple approaches. But no matter what you do, if your genetics are beyond horrible, not even looksmaxing can save you. I have finally accepted my fate that I will never find a girlfriend. I have accepted it’s my fault for being born ugly. To every guy out there who is also struggling with this, I just want to say: give up on women and find other stuff that makes you happy. Not everyone deserves to find love, and it’s okay. I realized women aren’t everything in life. Does it pain me? Yes, but it’s time to move on. Hopefully, all the other incels can accept it as well. My only goal now is to enjoy new hobbies and set new goals.
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and just imagine how weird it’ll be when a woman then likes you b/c you’re interesting and enjoying your own life without putting pressure on them.
This is nonsense my friend. Gonna go out on a whim here and say you are probably quite young. Make yourself attractive to yourself and girls will come. Resigning yourself to despair is the worst thing you can do. Stop going on the internet too much too pal
… I hate to break it to you, but you still sound like an incel. It’s not looks keeping you from girls, it’s this gross attitude. Nobody wants to date someone who acts like this. It’s exhausting. (Source: am a girl.)
Ever tried asking out a girl in your own league?
U gen still sound like an incel. 😭. As a girl I care much more abt personality than looks, like MUCH more. Genuinely ur entire “looksmaxing” mindset is the reason u don’t get any girls they don’t like guys with this type of incel mindset. For me, I like guys who aren’t creepy and can actually talk to me like a normal person, and someone who I can relate to and get close to. This has NOTHING to do with looks.
Sorry if I’m being too harsh, but basically I’m saying that there is nothing wrong with ur appearance, just I think the internet has developed a culture that you need to look a certain way and then u get all the girls but in reality that’s js not how it works. A lot depends on personality, work ethic, family, future. Just think of women as friends, making urself glorious doesn’t automatically give u friends, it helps but what matters most is ur outlook, work ethic, personality.
Plus you need to love yourself first, don’t blame ur genetics, this is all internet terms and no real person with half a brain gives afucj abt that stuff. Find ur confidence in urself again, focus on yourself and ur future and your attitude and I’m sure a girl will come along. Don’t prioritize them tho.
Find hobbies dude, you will be okay