Backstory
So I worked this job, I was sexually harassed and retaliated against, lied about, tried to get me fired and make me quit, and iscolated. Then someone came on my team I was training aparently training me out of my clients and I’d move somewhere else…
Anyways, these two girls are the first I trusted this with, I was so happy to have someone as I felt I was going insane with the backward talk and gaslighting and stuff… and I switched teams, and he moved back onto all my old cases with my now friends
Well, now everyone loves him, they tell me he’d never do it to them, what ever. Well I showed the one coworker my two bars, the one that was literally a minute from my house and my other that my soccer team goes too cause the one player owns it. I’m not totally a bar person but when I go to the bar I’m there!
Recently I quit the job because they started micromanaging me, bullying me and threatening me. Now this was pushed because my friend. I know the guy who sexually harassed me got to my friend, and got to my other supervisors and was trying to get me fired cause I told hr on him. Sucks what ever.
So tell me why I see on Snapchat and findmyfriends she’s at my bars with him? She knows Wednesday I always go to one for my team, and this time I skipped and I see she’s there WITH HIM! At my bar???? She’s stopped asking me to hang out, when she literally said she couldn’t go anywhere with out me.
So she’s at my bar (not that it’s MY bar, but I introduced her to everyone, like I go there!) and I wanna just show up. Actually I think I will. They have karaoke tonight and I usually go. And when I do she goes to my other bar with them.
So question!!!
Should I pull up like I don’t know?
Comments
Pulling up like you don’t know is bold but messy. If you want power, don’t chase drama, let them wonder how you’re still glowing without them.
why do you care to waste your precious youth and time on toxic garbage people? go where you are wanted. surround yourself with genuine lovely people. do not go waste time at a bar with trashy users. You deserve better than that. treat yourself like a little sister you love, what advice would you give her? Don’t abuse yourself and put yourself in situations where people can eat you up and spit you out. find real friends.