I 17f keep running into the same group of girls who call out my name and immediately start laughing when I turn to look to see who it is. This originally started back during my freshman year, and I genuinely don’t know who these girls are. It didn’t bother me at first, thinking it was someone I knew, turned out to be a specific group of girls I didn’t recognize, but my name is really rare. Like I’m probably the only girl with that name in my school, I just ignored them as much as possible, but to keep doing that every day really wore me out my junior year. They followed me everywhere, restrooms, during lunch, while I was waiting for classes to start, it made me very nervous to even walk by certain parts of school, if I wasn’t avoiding them already. I finally broke down in December of 2023, and my parents had a meeting with the school. They asked me for the names of the girls, what they looked like, and all that. Since I really didn’t know those girls, they sent me back with a ‘talk to us when you need help.’ It seemed to be getting better, and then my senior year started. Nothing happened the first 3 9 weeks, I even made new friends this year! Then, around a month ago, it started happening again, them calling out my name, me looking back just to see them giggling. It’s happened three times since the week started, but now its getting to me. I felt so pretty today, and now I just want to go home. I know these girls are seniors, since they’ve been doing this since freshman year, but why are they so immature to keep doing this as 17-18 year olds?
Man, I’m so bummed out.
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Oh my! Seriously, that’s just awful! Haha, it’t just so mean to keep doing that to someone. It’s so silly me to be surprised, but it’s just so unfair. I can’t believe they’re still doing it as seniors… it’s just… wow! I hope you find a way to feel better and that they stop bothering you, because, honestly, you deserve to feel good, don’t you? It’s just so sad that people can be like that
Ugh, that’s just… awful. Seriously, you shouldn’t have to put up with that kind of treatment, not at all! I mean, you’re right, they’re seniors, so they should know better, but some people just… don’t. It’s not about them, though, because it’s about how you feel, and what you do, and you deserve a happy school experience, absolutely! They’re probably just insecure, acting out because they’re scared, I think. Hey, you’re strong, you’ll get through this, reaching out to someone is a really good move, you’ll figure it out. And that’s just, you know, what happens sometimes, it’s the sad reality. Wow, you’re brave
I would just be like “man, I hope when I’m a senior I’m not as immature as you”
Ask them what’s so funny? Whatever their answer is, say wow, that’s not normal.
This is awful. I’m so sorry about this. I bet your name is awesome. One fact that always makes me happy is that cows have best friends
Start spreading rumors about them, write stuff on the bathroom wall so it can’t be traced back to you, turn them all against each other
Confront them. See why they want to get to know you so much. Get their names. Then narc
Even though they are seniors, they’re still immature. I remember when I was a senior there was a group of guys running down the hall, pretending they were firetrucks. Making sirens and horn sounds.