my mental health is in its lowest, my parents gave me so much childhood trauma, mentally abuse me, sometimes physically too, i cant take it anymore, they r doing it everyday and at this point, its either suicide or move out and run away but i am 17 nd have no job nd in my last year of school, but i dont wanna die as i have big dreams that i want to achieve!
I want to move out from this toxic family
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Do you have a relative you could live with? Get a job and SAVE. You can get out on your own if you have money.
I am so sorry, sweetie.
Are you able to talk with a guidance counselor at your school? They might be able to help you with this. And they will keep your information confidential.
Same. It sucks. Just hang on, finish school, save what you can. You’re almost out. Don’t let them win.
You have a frnd with whom u can stay ?
I understand how you feel having come from a very toxic family environment as well. You need to spend as little time as possible in your home. So, focus on your school work and if you can get a part-time job, both will help keep you out of your home environment as much as possible. Once you graduate, switch to working full-time, which again will keep you out of the home, and save up your money to move out. Just focus on those things first. You’re in fight and flight/survival mode, and it’s hard to focus on your big dreams when you’re in that space mentally, emotionally, physically. Focus on getting yourself out of your home and into your own home. Once you are in a safe space…a space of your own, you’ll be able to focus more on your dreams. Wishing you the best of luck!