I was a vegan activist for 25 years. A few days ago I ate meat for the first time in all those years. AMA

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It was bacon, but I’ve had shrimp and steak fajitas since then. Yes, I was an annoying activist. Yes, I was preachy. Yes, I regret that and it’s part of why I’m posting.

Edit- If you’re vegan and have doubts, lets talk.

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  1. username0016 Avatar

    Why did you choose to give up veganism? Do you find the meat industry horrific?

  2. hunterman321 Avatar

    Did you like the taste? Did it make your stomach upset or anything ?

  3. RasberryWaffle Avatar

    Why the change of heart all of a sudden ?

  4. Sandmancze Avatar

    What’s your next meat you’re gonna try?

  5. Tiny_Flounder_7207 Avatar

    what’s something you really wanna eat

  6. BionicKronic67 Avatar

    When you were full vegan was there a dish that you secretly wish you would eat like you couldn’t even get over the smell of it it just made your mouth water.

  7. DependentAmbitious46 Avatar

    Are you gonna eat a dry aged steak now that you’re back?

  8. SnooConfections7452 Avatar

    Isn’t bacon fucking delicious?

  9. pins-chick Avatar

    did you have health issues/nutrient deficiencies? I’ve been vegetarian most of my life but now eat more meat due to anemia.

  10. Ganda1fderBlaue Avatar

    I sometimes wonder if i should become vegetarian, though i love meeting eating meat. It does seem cruel to kill animals. I wonder if people in the future will look back on us with disgust. What’s your perspective on the matter?

  11. Charming-Set4188 Avatar

    Don’t feel bad. Vegans may be annoying but the Carnivore diet people are wayyyyyy worse…

  12. just_scrollin11 Avatar

    Did you lose friendships or relationships over veganism? What do you think about that now?

  13. ThisGuyIRLv2 Avatar

    Do you feel like you made an impact on any level?

  14. FantasticPear Avatar

    Not a question, just wanted to say welcome back!

  15. paragonx29 Avatar

    On a scale of 1 to 10, how much are you enjoying meat (bacon is delicious)…and is it more enjoyable than any other fruit/legume you have eaten?

  16. Surfnazi77 Avatar

    I support your decision to eat what you want just like you should have others, how do you feel about that statement.

  17. pinkyandthebrain-ama Avatar

    Thanks for posting. I know that you said it was a gradual thing but did you get a pang of guilt eating meat for the first time in so many years? On the flip side, did the taste of the delicious bacon give you a bit of a euphoric rush of blood to the head?

  18. Sven_Golly1 Avatar

    What have you enjoyed the most so far?

  19. fifitty Avatar

    Was it non -factory farmed bacon at least? Did those clever caring creatures get a good life, including being outside in the fresh air and sunshine with room to run around when they want, before they were killed for their flesh?

  20. Inevitable-Cell-1227 Avatar

    Full disclosure: I love meats. Same with my family. Do you think there is any viable way we could get the general population to recognize the harm in factory farming and make a difference? What if everyone decided to eat less meat? Like a national don’t eat meat on Fridays type thing?

  21. Legal_Ad_326 Avatar
    1. Did you feel really sick after eating the bacon? I’ve been veggie for over 20years and had beef by accident and was so ill!
    2. Was bacon the thing you found yourself craving the most? I dream about it 😭
    3. Are you going back to eating meat “normally” or are you aiming to find more of a balance?
    4. Are you thinking about the kind of meat you buy? By that I mean organic/local versus cheaper standard supermarket meat

    To be clear, there’s zero judgement on any of this from me!

  22. cottoncandymandy Avatar

    I was a vegetarian, then a vegan for a while. I used it as a cover for my severe eating disorder. Do you see this often in the community?

  23. BoS_Vlad Avatar

    I’m not vegan or vegetarian I do, however, eat very little meat. My question is, have you experienced ‘meat breath’ after eating beef as I do? I never noticed it when I ate beef regularly, but only eating it occasionally as I do now I am very aware of my breath smelling unpleasant to me afterwards.

  24. Pollyfall Avatar

    Longtime vegetarian here (still am). Eating what you want is fine, but there are so many reasons not to participate in factory farming. It’s mass murder on an industrial scale. Yes, bacon, sausage and BBQ are all delicious. But the pain caused innocent animals was too much for me. I chose, and still choose, empathy. It doesn’t matter if it makes a difference to anyone else. It makes a difference to me.

    Downvote away! 😘

  25. Ambitious_Hold_5435 Avatar

    Do you think there’s some truth to the theory that some bodies need meat more than others? And that blood type matters? I have type O blood and I crave red meat. I don’t feel right if I don’t get meat in my diet at least a few times a week. And why did you decide to eat it after all these years? Was it a health reason?

  26. Flabbergasted_____ Avatar

    I’ve been vegan for 18 years and feel like eating meat would make me violently sick.

    How long have you been on the toilet?

  27. wessle3339 Avatar

    Have you learned to cook steak yet? Have you learned about locally sourcing/supporting local farmers

  28. Trout-Population Avatar

    How difficult is it to abandon such a large part of your personality? Do you feel like you’ve left a part of you behind in abandoning veganism? Or is it not that deep.

  29. sayleanenlarge Avatar

    I don’t believe it

  30. freddiefrog123 Avatar

    Did it upset your stomach?

  31. Yeah_i_suppose Avatar

    What kind of activism did you do?

  32. juanwand Avatar

    You’ve said you’ve had health issues due to veganism. 

    I’m wondering could it be you haven’t found a good combination of diet in it? 

    I’m thinking of large groups of people who built their culture around vegetarianism. Such as Indians.

  33. freakyforrest Avatar

    What brought you to a point of trying meat? Are you still and animal rights activist in the point of better farming practices? What’s your thoughts on hunting?

  34. AK907fella Avatar

    Ever think of starting to hunt? It closes the loop. You can ethically harvest animals of a certain age and know exactly where you food is coming from.

  35. IntelligentAd4429 Avatar

    I love meat and have always been firmly against veganism. I have a health tracker now and I’ve noticed when I avoid all animal products my metrics are much better. I don’t see myself ever becoming a true vegan but I will likely be eating vegan most days for the rest of my life. I’m glad you’re getting to enjoy meat. I wish I was. What was it that you ate?

  36. BringingBackRad Avatar

    I’ve been a pretty hard core vegetarian for 35 years and yesterday I ate a bowl of minestrone that apparently had meat bits in it. I didn’t know it until 3/4 of the way through. Though I was disgusted, I can wholeheartedly say, that it was fucking delicious 😆

  37. Illustrious_Map_7870 Avatar

    Did you enjoy the bacon? I suspect yes cuz looks like future meats are being planned. I vote either steak or im a sucker for some yummy chicken….my family has always made Dorito chicken with rice and cheese sauce and it’s so dang good. Dammit I just made myself crave that, that’s what I did lol

  38. Born-Method7579 Avatar

    What made you change so radically

  39. sanblch Avatar

    Did you get any health issues being a vegan for a long time?

  40. ventodivino Avatar

    I never liked meat too much growing up – never liked eating off bone, any gristle, didn’t like steak at all and avoided most pork. I quit eating land animals almost 20 years ago.

    I was never a preachy vegetarian/vegan (longggg periods during that time where I was full vegetarian or completely vegan diet wise)

    In that time I’ve eaten fish from time to time but have avoided most other sea life. Can’t bring myself to eat a cephalopod. I don’t like shrimp or hard shell crab.

    The longer I’ve gone without eating land animals, and the more I see them prepared, cooked, and eaten, the less interest I have in trying them again. Chicken meat disgusts me, for example.

    What changed for you that made you start eating meat again?

  41. True_Inside_9539 Avatar

    Bacon- the gateway meat.

  42. HedgeBusta_420-69 Avatar

    What are your thoughts on hunters and hunting? Do you think is more ethical than supporting the meat industry?

  43. Illustrious_Map_7870 Avatar

    Idk where the comments went but for Dorito chicken very preachy and I actually didn’t say shit I just kept making me horrible trash dinner, once she smelled it and then as I made the cheese sauce to go on top I knew she was gonna eat it. And she ate a ton lol oops

  44. CharredScallions Avatar

    Were you vegan for health reasons or because you believed it was wrong to execute animals?

  45. mygoldenpup Avatar

    This smells like some karma farming pick-me bullshit to me. You created a new account just for this and have done nothing for the past month but posts AMAs about it.

    It’s hard for me to believe a vegan “activist” of 25 years doesn’t even have an answer to the argument that a vegan diet is inherently unhealthy because most vegans take b12 supplements. As if that is the only marker for health. How about the fact (well known to most vegans) that the vast majority of meat animals in the US are given b12 injections or supplements? So the health of meat eaters is also heavily dependent on b12 supplementation. Isn’t cancer a pretty big indicator of health? Because vegans have the lowest cancer rates between meat eaters, pescatarians, vegetarians and vegans.

    I don’t believe that a vegan diet is a moral imperative, I don’t think it’s the healthiest choice for everyone, and I don’t preach my diet to other people. That’s a choice everyone gets to make for themselves. But so many of your comments from your new “look at me, I stopped being vegan, give me karma” account are agreeing with people about how you’re SO much less annoying now! Good for you. Stfu

  46. No_Economics6505 Avatar

    I know it hasn’t been long yet, but have you noticed any health changes? Mental clarity, better sleep, etc?

  47. NegotiationSmart9809 Avatar

    Plot twist tis propoganda /s

  48. el_dude_brother2 Avatar

    Did you have an eating disorder at the same time? Alot of strict vegans are using it as a convenient excuse for a ED

  49. Paratwa Avatar

    I have a genetic disposition toward gout, I looooove meat but eating beyond a small amount messes me up.

    Sadly shrimp does it too.

    Anyway, is there anything I can eat that will scratch that itch as a person who was a vegetarian in the past? Like what can I eat to supplant delicious succulent steaks?!?

    I crave meat, but it hates me back. 🙁

  50. driverfortoolong Avatar

    what do you drive?

  51. Rare-Satisfaction484 Avatar

    How annoying is it that I say “Vay-Gun” instead of “Vee-Gun”? Like, I know “Vee-Gun” is the accepted pronunciation but I always find myself saying “Vay-Gun” instead. I don’t know why and it’s not deliberate, it’s a habbit.

  52. 123Catskill Avatar

    I was a vegetarian for years and then I ate a sausage. It was underwhelming. Was it the same for you with the bacon?

  53. Brent_Mavis Avatar

    Cool, you knowingly are contributing to the suffering of others and wanna brag about it on the internet…….

  54. VeganTomatoGuy Avatar

    You stated that you doubt various vegan claims. Which ones in particular?

    Also, would you be interested in taking some of your positions over to the vegan debate sub? As an activist of five or so years who has attended vigils, protests, outreach and am very present in the movement on a national scale, I thirst for different and opposing viewpoints. I’d love to hear the actual nuance behind your position.

  55. philosophiaehistoria Avatar

    I was vegan for 9 years before I finally started eating eggs because I can go and collect them from my local farm and visit the chickens & ducks whenever I want, they’re pretty chill & happy.

    I still can’t bring myself to eat meat, it’s an emotional thing. I’ve always been a big animal lover but honestly seeing baby lambs etc makes my heart ache knowing they’re going to be slaughtered sometime…

    I’ve contemplated going back to fish produce but even with that I feel guilty. What made you take that big step?

  56. Suspicious_Plant4231 Avatar

    Did your body have any sort of aversion to it? I ask because I was vegan for about 5 years and vegetarian for like 10 years prior to that

    I struggle to eat most meat still. I mostly eat chicken. I physically struggled to eat steak and I’m not sure why