I am 28F, and have had 4 relationships, the longest lasted almost 4 years, the shortest was about 1 year; and yes, I was always been cheated on.
And slowly I became so insecure and very careful to get into new relationship, but again, being cheated on. My ex said I was too controlling but I felt like all I asked were bare minimum(we were in LDRs, and 6 hrs gap)
1. Tell me when he was busy (he always has no texts the whole day)
2. Tell me when he was going to sleep
3. Tell me when he started to play games
4. When I saw he chatted with other girls I would ask him who they were.
Am I really too controlling?