I was homeless with my mom from 2016 to 2018 in the suburbs of Chicago AMA.

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My mom and I lost our apartment in 2016 when our landlord died and her family wanted to sale the building so they evicted everyone including us. I had no choice to surrender my cat Darth to anti cruelty because I didn’t want him to feel the harsh Chicago Winters. Most of our family disowned us or did very little to help us.

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  1. RainbowDonkey473 Avatar

    How did you get out of the cycle?

  2. WimbledonWombat Avatar

    When you say homeless, how much was rough sleeping as compared to shelters, emergency accommodation, staying with friends, etc?

  3. keltaesar2015 Avatar

    How tragic that you had to be separated from your cat!! Have you been able to visit them or at least get an update on them? 😭♥️

  4. Templar2008 Avatar

    A dozen questions come to my mind.
    Why lasted that long? What lessons came out of the experience? What ages were yours at the time? How you came out of it?
    Good to know you are on a better place now (or so it seems)

  5. SeniorJean Avatar

    How are you so strong?

  6. beepbop3002 Avatar

    I’m hoping you are both in a better place now! 🫶🏻 wishing y’all the best in life! What resource would have been most helpful to you? What’s the best thing other people can do to help? I always want to help those in similar situations, but I never know what would be the most helpful.

  7. NotALongTimeGG Avatar

    I’m always curious to see the lived experiences of real people overcoming hard times, do you have any stories that stand out, or like a documentary style start to finish story of what you and your mom went through? Would love to read it.

  8. throwaway03244230 Avatar

    Why did your family disown you?

  9. Sandwhichwings32 Avatar

    Firstly hello, and thanks for sharing, did people try to physically harm you and/or your Mother often? I don’t know why but that’s one of the things beside the cold weather, that scares me.

  10. appiate0 Avatar

    Why did your family disown you?

  11. firmalor Avatar

    I’m sorry this happened to you.

    Chicago can get very cold. How did you survive?

    Did the experience have a long-term impact on your health?

  12. sandleaz Avatar

    Where was your father at the time?

  13. mutanthands Avatar

    How did you survive the harsh winters with no roof?