In about two hours, I will go in and drop off my letters of resignation. I’m not giving a two-week notice. I’m not staying to work the shift. I know it’s the right choice; I’ve long known this job is not a fit. I’m scared because the world is getting crazy, and to be without a job for even a second is such a huge risk. But I’m doing it anyway.
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Good luck and all the best – Have you considered coasting for some more time till economic conditions get clearer ? Are you retiring or looking for another job ?
I wish you all the success! I plan to do the same, it’s only a matter of when.
The world is crazy right now but that doesn’t change what you know. I also don’t believe it’s going to improve any time soon so why not join in on the crazy and live our damn lives how we want to? I hope you enjoy a renewed sense of freedom, follow your passion, and find an amazing new job!!
This. Exactly this… um, It takes immense courage to walk away. Sometimes, the hardest part is simply acknowledging that a change is needed, and then taking that leap. I hope you find the peace and opportunity you deserve, it’s a really big deal, and it’s brave. Remember to prioritize yourself and trust your instincts, you’re doing the right thing, truly, and that’s something to be proud of
I REALLY would advise securing another job before you quit. My fiance was out of work for a month and still only got a shitty paying job to hire him (he’s been trucking for years and doing armed security, there’s zero reason why he couldn’t get a good job other than they’re just not hiring). Don’t chance your financial security for feelings. Yes. Eventually quit that job. But have another one lined up first… people just aren’t hiring right now because we’re entering another recession. So please be careful and make sure your bills have a way of being paid first so you don’t end up in a bad situation… I don’t know how bad this job was for you, but if it wasn’t miserable, line up a new job first… (sorry if this seems like nagging. I just don’t want someone in the same situation as us worrying about food on the table)
I stayed in a job for 30 years that I had hated for well over a decade because of the money and stability the job offered.
It was absolutely terrifying when I took my leap of faith and quit. The only words I have that comes close to describing that time in my life is that it felt surreal. It somehow felt more real than anything I had ever done while also not feeling real at all.
That was six years ago now and I am so so much happier with my life. I was able to find another job with more flexibility and less stress. I successfully adjusted my lifestyle(neccisity is the mother of invention) and I have far more free time to spend with myself and those I care about.
I don’t know if I’m the exception or the rule, I just thought it might help you deal with your fear of what may come knowing that it is possible.
Good luck, you got this.