I don’t want to get into specifics but about a few months ago when things were still good between me and my boyfriend his mom planned to take me to their annual vacation back to our home country.
The trip is this Friday but things have been distant and rocky with my boyfriend. When things get rough he ghosts me and chooses to sweep bigger problems under the rug. Even as im writing this he is ghosting me and refusing to respond. It sucks but i just cant help him since he refuses to respond and now im just left wondering what im going to do on this trip. Any advice? I’ll be staying with him and his family for two and a half weeks, do i play it safe and act like a couple for the remainder of the trip? I am not willing to flake out on the trip though due to personal issues and money costs.
TLDR: bf is ghosting me and i’m unsure how to move forward during an upcoming trip out of country w/ his family
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You’re probably not going on the trip anymore; if you have them money for it ask for it back
>I am not willing to flake out on the trip though due to personal issues and money costs.
Personally, I would not go on the trip. Whatever personal issues arise from that are probably worth just taking the hit on, and I can’t see how it will cost money to cancel – if you cancel now they can maybe give your ticket to a cousin or friend or something. I would not do a multi-week vacation with somebody who you don’t want to be in a relationship with (and their family). If it was a weekend maybe I’d let it ride, but 2.5 weeks is too much.