Met this girl on tinder whom i found very attractive and we went out for a coffee date, and we talked and we had fun, but its so hard for me to really get the urge to hookup (im also a virgin). Like i dont know why, bc i want to, but i get so hung up on the details of what its gonna be like that I just kinda float through and then in the end nothing happened and we parted ways. Im still kinda hurt cause honestly i liked her.
Im not sure if its also my insecurity bc im a virgin, or also bc i live with my parents in an apartment and share a room with a younger sibling…
Im just so frustrated, like some months i want to hookup but struggle and then things like this happen and i feel like its impossible and that its not gonna happen to me ever. I just get in my head way too much
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Met this girl on tinder whom i found very attractive and we went out for a coffee date, and we talked and we had fun, but its so hard for me to really get the urge to hookup (im also a virgin). Like i dont know why, bc i want to, but i get so hung up on the details of what its gonna be like that I just kinda float through and then in the end nothing happened and we parted ways. Im still kinda hurt cause honestly i liked her. Im not sure if its also my insecurity bc im a virgin, or also bc i live with my parents in an apartment and share a room with a younger sibling… Im just so frustrated, like some months i want to hookup but struggle and then things like this happen and i feel like its impossible and that its not gonna happen to me ever. I just get in my head way too much…
its because you dont know what its like. Once you’ve done it, it will become more easy. Just be honest, if you go home with someone tell them its your first time and that you hope they dont mind.