I (M33) started seeing someone(F32) about two months ago. She got divorced a year ago after 8 years of marriage/relationship. Things progressed faster than I anticipated and we have a pretty special bond. She says a lot of things that make me think she sees a future together. There have been a few instances lately that make me uneasy and I can’t tell if I’m overreacting or not. She has asked for us to be committed but also didn’t want a title and almost seemed to have a visceral reaction to the thought. She has also casually brought up feeling confused whether she should be committing to her first relationship after the divorce or dating around but mostly framed it as others advice to her. Recently, she told me it was bothering her and was noticeably distant. We talked it through but there is still a mild distance. Most recently, she started posting mildly provocative pictures on social media very soon after we had a discussion about the above. Curious if people would interpret these things as troubling? Any advice is appreciated
TL;DR new committed relationship with 1 year divorcee who wants my commitment but also expresses uncertainty if being with her first guy after divorce is right thing to do