I found out my bf subscribed to his cousins OF. after she sent him the link. This was back at the end of summer when we weren’t seeing each other but I found the link in his notes app and he tried telling me it was hers. She sent it to him apparently to have him distribute it to people he knows so she could get more subscribers.

He explained to me that growing up he kind thought she was hot and when she sent him that, that weird part of his brain got curious. Tried to tell me he doesn’t still feel that way. But obviously he does. I made him text her to verify that she sent it to him. And she did. And she wasn’t weirded out by him asking at all. Totally casual