if i could go back in time, i don’t think I’d get married.

been married a little over 12 years now and I still wonder if it was the right thing to do. for context we have 2 littles (5 year old & 9months old) and most times I feel I have 3 kids instead of 2. I love my kids with all my heart and have always wanted to have them but sometimes I wonder if getting married was the right move. Maybe I did it just because everyone was doing it and it was one of those things that people just do as they get older. having kids is hard but being a married single mother is harder…