If someone else puts a hat on your head, why does it almost always not “feel right” until you adjust it?

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If someone else puts a hat on your head, why does it almost always not “feel right” until you adjust it?

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  1. Nelgumford Avatar

    I don’t know but it really doesn’t.

  2. Concise_Pirate Avatar

    The parameters for a hat to fit just right are surprisingly narrow, and without sensory feedback it’s hard to get them.

  3. SSYe5 Avatar

    they made it fit but they didnt make it fit good

  4. Archaent Avatar

    Because it isn’t placed right. When I place a hat on my own head I have to adjust it to a very specific position so that it isn’t too tight or too loose and and the brim/visor is at a comfortable angle relative to my head.

  5. senor61 Avatar

    this is a very interesting observation. I haven’t had a lot of experience of people putting hats on my head, but can imagine that adjusting it would be my first reaction. Maybe even just moving it around a bit and exactly back to the same starting position. Could be possible

  6. alBoy54 Avatar

    This is a fantastic question

  7. fermat9990 Avatar

    Because only the feedback you get from the little peaks and valleys of your precious noggin will allow you to find the perfect orientation

  8. captnkurt Avatar

    There’s a similar phenomenon in restaurants: people tend to reposition their plate once a server sets it down in front of you. It sort of “asserts ownership” if you ask me.

  9. HeartOn_SoulAceUp Avatar

    That’s oddly true and to whoever can resist it…

    …hat’s off to you!

  10. OkOkra7720 Avatar

    If you ever get tire while driving and have to push through put a hat on your head wrong and leave it alone it will bother you enough to help keep you awake ( not that I’d drive all tired like that ) haha but it works

  11. ChillWithLorna Avatar

    It’s the universal law of vibes. The hat chooses the wearer, not the other way around… unless you’re the one wearing it.

  12. theotherquantumjim Avatar

    Came into the thread thinking “dunno but I bet there’s a name for it.” So come on Reddit don’t let me down

  13. thickasiangoddess Avatar

    It’s because your brain has a “default setting” for how a hat should feel—the right fit, tilt, and pressure. When someone else puts it on, it rarely matches your personal preference, so you instinctively adjust it. It’s like your body’s autopilot kicking in! 🧢

    Anyone else do this or just me?

  14. Perfect_Weakness_414 Avatar

    It takes 8 years to become an optometrist.

    7.5 of those are spent learning how to put glasses onto other people.

  15. Slow_LT1 Avatar

    Not really sure, but glasses are the same way. When i get my hair cut and the barber tries to put them on for me, it’s never right. Same with even my optometrist.

  16. dayankuo234 Avatar

    my guess is it’s similar to what happens when you try to tickle yourself vs someone else tries to tickle you. when you tickle yourself, you control location and intensity. vs someone else tickles you and you are usually more sensitive, due to lack of control (and possibly the surprise) if expect the hat thing to be the same way (no control of location, intensity, comfortability)

  17. martinis00 Avatar

    It’s the same principle when the waiter puts the plate in front of you…. You WILL move it. Watch people at a restaurant next time