Someone I’m not related to, but has been in my life since my birth, has unfortunately broke her jaw. She’s telling me (in writing, since talking is difficult), that she is doing well and that her partner is taking care of her. She doesn’t have children to take care of, so at least that’s one less pressure.
I’d like to make this unfortunate event better, but I’m really not sure what would be a good idea. For instance, I’m not sure proposing to visit her is a good idea since she must be recuperating from her accident and cannot really talk. I’ve only met her partner incidentally, so it feels strange to offer coming over to clean or help with chores as an almost stranger to him since it is his space as well and I’m not technically family even if she is to me.
So I thought to ask other women: if you ever had your jaw wired shut (especially as an adult), is there anything you especially appreciated, be it a gift or a gesture?
Much appreciated!