I think guys and girls and other gender definitely can be friends, but if you have a crush on your friend before dating someone and/or you get with your friend right after the breakup, you guys were never really friends to begin with, you guys had a crush on each other and just waited for the “right timing” or both to be single to get together 🤷🏻
edit: wanted to add that if you wait at least like 6 months after a breakup, then you catch feelings for a friend, that’s different
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? Yes you can. This is a high school level thought.
No.
You can be attracted to friends. You can sleep with friends without it being a romantic thing. Why do we need to feel a need to moralize how other people build their friendships?
Did my ex boyfriend post this? Lmao he called me a cheater for dating someone new a whole ass week after I broke up with him.
A hoe? Maybe. Not a cheater though.
I mean you might as well tell us your story bro
Your feelings for someone can change. So yes you can be friends with someone and later catch romantic feelings, then act on them when the time is right (and be friends the entire time this is happening)