If you’re with your SO and another woman who is obviously attractive passes both of you, what goes through your mind?
If you’re with your SO and another woman who is obviously attractive passes both of you, what goes through your mind?
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If you’re with your SO and another woman who is obviously attractive passes both of you, what goes through your mind?
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Usually it’s some variation of “Awooga!” or “Damn, she’s gorgeous.”
Women are fucking hot and I like looking at them.
Im thinking that she’s attractive. Thats it
We’d probably both be checking her out/think she’s attractive
I hope to be in a relationship one day where we can both look, and then look at each other and be like, “omg she’s gorgeous. I love her <insert what we noticed>”
Very little tbh. I’d make the observation that she was an attractive woman… that’s it.
Nothing. I’m not that insecure. I don’t mean to be cocky but I keep my man engaged in conversation when we are out. We are too busy laughing and talking for people walking by to be a concern of mine. If he glances, so be it. I don’t watch where his eyes go.
I’m more likely to be the one staring at her instead of my partner 😆 Then he would ask what I’m looking at and I’d say “A hot woman just passed. Smash.” Then we’d keep walking.
Nothing really. I think “she’s pretty” and that’s it
She looks nice and/or is so pretty!
I’ll make a comment maybe if the time is right. I’ll do the same with men. We are open enough to admit when someone is gorgeous.
“whered she get her outfit??”
If she’s visually my type I probably think that she’s beautiful or pretty or whatever. Not concerned with what my husband thinks or does.
Nothing
Nothing at all.
Ooo she’s hot! I might point her out if he didn’t see first. Same if I see a hot man.
Nothing.
I may point out that she’s gorgeous or I like xyz about her, but I’m not going to go out of my way to ogle her and I’d be put off if my husband did.
It would be the same as any other person, literally no thoughts. and I hate the “we’d both be checking her out” thought process. Can you guys please stop trying to play “cool girlfriend” by objectifying women? Let her live you weirdos
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I would mutually be checking them out, same thing with men. We’re both bisexual 😅
I’ve definitely said ‘this person is beautiful’ to my husband before, and he was like, ‘What person?’
I do not look at her and specifically look at my partner
I’ve never been concerned about a S/O checking out another woman. I’m always too busy thinking about myself and wondering if this 10/10 woman thinks I look like an ugly loser lol
I’m WAAAYYYYY more concerned, as a woman, about impressing those women.
I have a weird staring habit when it comes to noticing things I like about people, so regardless of if I’m with an SO or not, I will TELL that girl that she is stunning. If my man jumps in and agrees, that’s even better, because she needs to know she’s lookig good!
My husband is a perfect gentleman, I on the other hand am not.
Typically think in my head Hmmm, nah I’ve got this cutie beside me. Then I reach for my SO’s hand and give her a smirk. Most times she’ll slap or swat my hand away and I laugh.
Probably something like “she’s pretty” or “I’m jealous of her awesome hair/figure/lips/whatever”. I am too old to waste my mental energy feeling insecure about other women being seen by my husband.
Nothing really. I’m secure in myself and my relationship. I acknowledge that there’s a lot of gorgeous women out there, but I know he’s faithful and I don’t have to worry about a thing 😌