I’m 16 and I had no girlfriend, and you can think I never had gf maybe because I’m ugly or maybe I’m short, but no I’m 185 and I’m attractive enough to have girlfriend. I think my problem is that I can’t talk with girl that I’m fell in love with, I had some friend girls, and I can talk with them with no pressure. But I really hope that I will get gf until I will get 20, because so many of my friends had gf’s and somehow they can talk with girls but I can’t. Maybe it will sound stupid but I’m really afraid of it, I’m afraid of having no love, no dates and other feelings I can get when I’m in relationship.
TL;DR Ik that maybe I’m young for relationship, and you can see me as a school guy who just want sex, but trust me it isn’t like this and I’m really stressed about this situation.
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You’re 16.
There’s no rush.
Trust me… plenty of time to meet a girl and have your heart broke a couple of times… and… to break a few hearts yourself maybe…I was 15/16 before my first proper gf.
Life isn’t just about sex man. And it’s normal to not date when you’re younger…
I myself only had sex at the age of 22 an my first kiss was at 17. I got my first gf at 18.
Just remember that women are people just like you are. Nothing to be anxious about. Good luck man. Give it time. There really isn’t anything to stress about.
I’m my bfs first girlfriend and he was 21. You’ll be fine. You need time to mature anyway
If you stop worrying about being in a relationship and just focus on handling your shit (in this case, school, whats after school, profession, hobbies), you will eventually meet someone.
When you look for a relationship it either eludes you or you end up in a bad situation anyway because you’re desperate and not thinking the long term through.
You’re young. Your time will come. Hustle and be confident! You’ll meet someone.