Until like 4 months ago she was kinda independent but now after an accident shes on a wheelchair so i moved to her house and i care cor her Everyone else in my family either to old to young or has children so im kinda alone(not in a bad way)
I really enjoy the company with her and can study in uni without working now
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Are you able to maintain a social life enough to keep your mental health good? Understanding some people have less need for a social life than others.
I’m sure your grandma deeply appreciates you
Is she mentally all there?
What a great young man, does your grandma have other family members that can step in if anything ever happens to you say you have to take an exam or something?
Not a question, but well done you! Make sure you sit down with her and ask her questions about her life and family and experiences. I wish I did with my grandmothers, one sadly passed away in 2018 and the other one has dementia and I also live abroad now.
Does handling personal care like bathing and toileting bother either of you? Those type of things are usually difficult for same sex parent/child caregiver relationships, I’d imagine in your position it’s slightly backward.
You are such a sweetheart. What a gift for both of you.