I’m 29 and still virgin

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I’m a 29 year old man and I’ve never had sex. I’ve never kissed anyone, never held someone, never cuddled and so on. I’ve never had even a moment of intimacy, and honestly, it breaks my heart.

I wish I could say I’ve made peace with it, that I’m content being alone, but I’m not. I’ve tried to convince myself that it doesn’t matter, that I’m okay without it, but deep down I know I’m not. It’s incredibly painful to feel like life’s most beautiful, human experiences are passing me by.

I’ve never had any standards or expectations. I don’t care about looks, gender, or finding “the one.” I’m not looking for a fairytale romance or a lifelong partner. I just want to feel close to someone, to share a quiet moment, to know what it’s like to be held and seen and wanted, even if just for a little while.

This is my dream: to lie in bed with someone, kiss them, hold them, and just be there. It’s a simple dream, but it feels so far away…

Comments

  1. CrimsonDv Avatar

    Use an escort. It’s becoming more common in today’s world.

  2. PoetryStriking7305 Avatar

    Bro just find an escort and stop depriving yourself and making it this big hurdle.

  3. Empty_Bowler_3907 Avatar

    Stop wasting time my friend. Take that pickle out the wrapper and get it wet. Come to the Philippines or Thailand and get familiar with the opposite sex. Plenty of ladies would love to rock your world for the night for about 100bux. You don’t wanna get older, and have your dick only work sometimes, or worse, not be able to finish. Get out there man, you don’t want to be left wondering how it would feel to have a pretty young thing ride your hard dick. If you really want a relationship, that’s easy to find here in Asia. Many people will say you will get used, yes that is possible, but if you stick to someone around your age, you should be ok. People get screwed over when they late 40s, complete slobs, and marry a hot 18 year old. Of course they get used…but some don’t as well. Long story short, get some lips around that dick.

  4. coffeewalnut05 Avatar

    What do you think has been the main obstacle to finding someone? Was it constant rejection or something about your lifestyle or location?

  5. iloveoranges2 Avatar

    For what it’s worth, I was a virgin until ~33, so there’s still hope, as long as you’re alive!

    Have you considered getting an escort for it?

  6. Jazz2421 Avatar

    If you want to make yourself better you can contact me for personality development classes.

  7. ShadowfangKeep Avatar

    Go to Thailand buddy, and not doe the thai women but for the amount of tourists there is there. They don’t care who they go home with, it’s fun! I’ve had russian, German, Swedish, Norwegian, a couple Japanese there, and I’m a average looking guy at best.