I’ve never told anyone this before, when I was 16 all I cared about was having sex for the first time. I met this girl though friends. She showed me that she found me attractive. I was so hell bent on having sex I didn’t think about her feelings at all. I picked her up took her to my bedroom and had sex. I didn’t care if she enjoyed or not it was was just the sex. Afterwards I drove her near a friend’s house and asked her to go and have him come meet me. As soon as she was out of site I left her to find her own way home.
Why I did this I’ll never understand. But to this day I’ve never forgiven myself for what I did and I never will.
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Wouldn’t you wanna stay on her good side so you could keep having sex? I never understand why people just abandon a girl after one time, like keep them around so you can get continued sex.
Pretty shitty thing to do not the worst thing tho I’m sure she’s had worse experiences .. I wonder how she’s doin.
52 Years of post nut clarity might be a world record gramps.
If I told you I did something awful when I was a child, and now I’m an old man who tries to be kind, what advice would you give me? Now give that advice to yourself.
Don’t sweat it, it was a normal teenaged thing to do back in 1973. It was a lifetime ago so just let it go.
Are you saying you raped her? Took her to your room and didn’t care if she liked it doesn’t sound consensual?
Find her on Facebook and tell her how you feel.
Bro a grapeist
damn thats a lot of time
That sounds like rape.
I had no idea sex was invented so long ago. And still trending
lots of talk about post but clarity, but this sounds like it could have been SA.
I bet she was like “whew thank god he left”
This is like an episode of cold case
You got lucky she didn’t scream rape
Did she ever make it home or are you trying to confess about something much worse?
I looked up 1973 Reddit. The young lady responded with her own post. She was worried that you didn’t like what she did for you and that she wishes she could apologize. She had no way to reach out to you for a second chance.
Don’t worry, brother. We all make mistakes. Don’t hang on to this thought any longer. She isn’t.
Very terrible. Did you ever receive any karma for it you think? Do you have a daughter by chance?
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Did you rape her?
Damm, do you know if she got home, OK?
And this is your first post. Your family must be so proud.
Good ole boomers
Was it Catholic shame?
Hahahhaha you are heaven bound after this joke
This reminded me of something I did that was very similar when I was around 18 or so. This was almost 20 years ago and in the my space days. These days everyone knows about catfish, but it wasn’t as well known in the early days with social media.
Anyway, I thought I hit the jackpot. This girl looked absolutely beautiful. But as you know when I got to her house, she was about 200 pounds more than what I thought and not very attractive.
She basically just jumped on me when I got into the house and the post nut clarity Just had me thinking how I’m gonna get out of here. I tried to make up a story about being tired, so I was gonna go get some coffee from Dunkin’ Donuts, but I think she knew what I was doing and she would insist she came with me.
So we both went to Dunkin’ Donuts lol. When we got back to the house, I’m walking in there with a tray of coffee but left the donuts in the car on purpose. When we walk into the house, I put the coffee down and say “oh shit I forgot the donuts and I walk outside.
I get into my car and start it and as I’m driving away, I look in the rearview mirror and see her running towards my car like a fucking terminator, waving her arms in the air. It’s the most cringe I’ve ever felt in my life to this day.
So it’s the early 1970s, I’ll assume it was consensual -ish — to me it does sound like the definition of awkward teenage sex and poor social skills.
I was a very active 16 year old boy once., I remember acting shitty in retrospect. Not SA shitty, but inept shitty.
Young people, at that age, also can’t fully grasp consent – especially in OPs times fresh off the Summer of Love era and kids looking up to these hippies. Things were different.
Kids should not be engaging in the old in out in out. It’s a mental trick, a perceived shortcut to adulthood and it’s not worth it.
But I must say, and it isn’t clear, If it wasn’t consensual, then that’s a miserable shame, and continue suffering, sir. I hope you’ve done good to the world, at least, to balance out that violence you committed.
If you know her where she lives, go talk to her and let her know you’re sorry for that, I’m sure she’ll be over it long ago. Its never too late.
Dont think, just do it.
You’re a rapist. Don’t tell us- tell your family what you are.
yeah you were a prick fs but it’s good you learned from it (fairly quickly i hope)
Did look her up on Facebook maybe she had your kid and you never knew.
Yup. Dique move.
Sooo, you’re admitting to being a rapist?
Haha, oh my God, that’s awful!
Uhh. She’s probably much more over it than you are by this point. You didn’t like ruin her life or anything. But that’s still .. just ridiculously bad behaviour.
But yes. Teenage boys can be quite smart about some things, but emotional intelligence is not one of those things. Dumb as bricks with that stuff, they are.
This makes me cringe really hard, but I vaguely remember being of similar age and one girl, who was a friend of a friend, kind of cornering me at a party and telling me she has a crush on me. I hadn’t noticed at all and didn’t find her attractive at all. But it was still making me feel a bit flustered. How did I deal with the situation? Couldn’t compute it, malfunctioned, and I think I told her to ‘fuck off’. I just wanted out of the situation, wasn’t into it, didn’t want to talk about it, and had apparently 0 tools to deal with any of it like a human being.
Finally an actual confession
Interesting how redditors respond
Some 52 year old guy is now wondering if you are his daddy.
Dad…… is that you?
At least you have grown. We all have done things as teens that today baffle us I think
Your story sounds like you raped her.
You could try looking her up. Tell her that you think about her. Do something very nice for her.
Did it shape you to be a better person through your life?
if it did, well, whilst you can’t take it back, you can rest that you used it to be that better person.
If you ignored it, or let it consume you and be a nasty person, GTFO.
Pay her car off.
Sounds like you were just a dip shit. Unless there’s underlying issues here, like you sexually assaulted her or she didn’t fully consent to sex but you made her, then that’s a whole other ball game.
But if you just boinked her and not caring if she got off, then just abandoned her along the road. It’s time to let it go.
To never forgive yourself might be a little excessive… I mean, yeah what a fucking shitty thing to do. Did you ever do something like that again? Or did you live your life everyday in some fashion to offset that act? At the end of the day, this happened 52 years ago. I’m glad you felt like shit for awhile, but to never forgive yourself is unnecessary.
Was the sex good?
You had a child by her
Well that does have a slightly rapey tone to it, can you clarify that grey area for us a bit?