I’m a jealous girlfriend. AMA

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No, I don’t stop him from having female friends or talking to his female relatives

Comments

  1. shiggins114 Avatar

    Fuckin A. Arent ya all?

  2. we_todd_ Avatar

    How often do you give in to it?

  3. PixelPhantom42 Avatar

    How do you react when you see him talking with a woman?

    How did you meet your boyfriend?

  4. TheBird_Is_The_Word Avatar

    Isn’t that exhausting?

    Have you considered finding a partner you trust more than anything and don’t feel the need to be jealous over?

    Why are you jealous? Do you have insecurities for yourself or for them?

  5. DrunkMonkBusiness Avatar

    What do you think the root cause is?

  6. SwordfishSilver8041 Avatar

    Why are you jealous?

  7. spdrweb8 Avatar

    Had he exhibited any behavior that would exacerbate this?

  8. NoOccasion4759 Avatar

    You being a jealous gf is a great way to become a jealous ex-gf.

    However is it his behavior that makes you feel insecure in your relationship? If it is, get yourself someone who doesn’t make you feel that way.

  9. Sufficient-Net9263 Avatar

    Why would you be jealous of how he acts with a female relative

  10. Economy_Spirit2125 Avatar

    I also used to be. I couldn’t help or control it, I didn’t trust the women around me after seeing how some
    Women act when you’re in a relationship. But truth be told it is exhausting, and it’s totally not worth your peace. So I decided going forwards I was going to let all that shit go, and started living by my motto
    ‘I will trust you absolutely, until you give me reason not to, and if you give me reason once, I’m outta here’
    I voice this out loud when I first enter relationships, and they respect that.
    I’ve taken the pressure off myself, they know where it’s at, and whatever happens next is down to them! Leave the toxic at the door though. Life’s too short for that.
    Trust also can’t be regained when it’s broken

  11. SeanCrevalle Avatar

    Reading the headline was exhausting.

  12. Embarrassed-Kale-744 Avatar

    You’re not stopping him from having female friends or talking to female relatives (which seems odd for someone to even consider doing) then Howe does your jealousy manifest? Looking through his phone? Scolding? How do you behave?