So ummm how do I start this hai I’m female just turned 16 I like love older guys I love when they baby me and call me sweet pet names when they buy me robux or just overall buy me stuff I like how they act so mature and just so protective over me I love when they act like my dad even tho that’s so weird idek if I have daddy issues or smt 🤷‍♀️ I like when they send me voice notes whispering to me and telling me how much of a sweet girl I am and how much they love me I’ve dated a 26 yo old before I recently broke up with him over dumb reasons and now I’m kinda sad I miss it and I hate that I miss it he was so sweet and just so handsome anyways how do I make it stop (and no this isn’t pedo bait or wtv u call it I just genuinely need advice) please don’t judge me idk where else to go I’m not starting therapy for like 2 months or smt this is my only way to get my feeling out I could speak to my friends abt it but it’s so embarrassing.IDK HOW TO MAKE IT STOP HELP it has gotten to a point that when I’m speaking to a guy I’m lowkey interested in me or he is interested to me and is bellow the age of 21 I just get so turned off
Edit Ok so I just got a death threat pls just stop if u don’t have any real advice to give me or anything nice to say just don’t reply to this post thing idk how reddit works exactly
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Therapy. Or just stop being on Reddit. This is not safe behavior
I’d just remind myself that they could potentially go to jail.
Do they know your age, and that it’s illegal
Hi 30 year old female here, there’s no reason a grown man should be interested in you, an actual child. That’s predatory behavior . Seek therapy or counseling, it will be best thing you can do for yourself 🤍
I get it but scary girl to write on here cause lots of weirdosÂ
Go to a therapist as this is most likely some sort of trauma response
Sounds weird to me.
You do have daddy issues. You need to talk to a counselor and please stay away from predators.
go outside stop being online
Get off here you’re only attracting it more
Grown man here.
-any grown man that wants to flirt with you is extremely immature, has issues, and is a predator. You are a child, they are adults, it isn’t right in the slightest. They are taking advantage of your youth, inexperience, and their adult status to prey on you for selfish reasons. You won’t be young forever anyway, and they will keep praying on young kids regardless. In the end, they’ll drain you and lose interest in you over time. Don’t fall for it.
-please learn how to use periods and commas. Punctuation is very important.
It’s good that you are getting into therapy because you can potentially lose your life this way. Please get offline. Get a job, get a hobby, anything to keep you busy and offline. You don’t understand your worth as a person yet and it’s so much more than you think it is. People will take advantage of that and will use and abuse you, if not worse.
I’m older guy and after reading this stream of consciousness brain dump, I’d blow my brains out rather than deal with the prospect of having you as a life partner.
This is not an insult. It’s just that you do not have right now what older guys should want. You have what 16yo guys want. Any older guy that finds this attractive is still mentally 16yo in some important ways, and that is the point.
This is not good for you. You will get in trouble.
Dating adults at 16 is unsafe. Try focusing on people your age, keep busy with hobbies, and talk to your therapist soon.
Nothing about OP’s responses makes me think this is a serious post.
If it is, why wait 2 months for therapy? Just confide in your parents, assuming you have parents…and I assure you they will find the resources.
Now, if something happened with dad when you were younger and that is what caused this, that’s a different story. And I’m absolutely not ruling that out, if this post is real.
Based on OP’s other post, I doubt she’s looking for real advice here. More so entertainment
Pedo trap guys looks about 40 in the picture…🤣
42 days ago she asked how to get men to buy her stuff, so I’m pretty sure this is just a ploy
I have no words
I ended up dating a older guy in my teens and after when I hit 20 he cheated on me with and impregnated a 17 year old. You will get left when you’re too “old”.
If this is true and you are who you say you are your inbox is gonna get crazy. Go to therapy, focus on education, don’t let older men take advantage of you.
Genuinely – just have to remove yourself from the situation and stop speaking to these guys. I can understand your attraction, but any older guy showing interest in a much younger girl is so sus. These are guys who women their own age wouldn’t go for, which should tell you something.
Imagine a girl your age who would go for a 12 year old boy, that’s similar to what these guys are doing buying you stuff.
Just keep yourself safe out there. As nice as these guys are coming across, most almost certainly have an ulterior motive.
When you’re older, you will be disgusted looking back that any adult men was interested in you at your age. You will grow more mature and realize how much of a child you are right now. It will leave you feeling like you were abused as a teen, and that you didn’t know what you were doing, but they should have. I’m saying this from experience. You feel mature enough now. You are not mature at all. Where are your parents in all of this?
These grown men are pedophiles. They’re interested in children, that’s pedophilia cut and dry. These are people to run away from.
How about not do anything until you get to therapy, and then talk to your therapist about it honestly. Or wait until you’re of older age where you’re an adult that way. Though I imagine the same guys that once babied you as a teenager might not do so just because you’re An adult at that point and they were nobodies at their older age that get off from either the power trip or the easier Manipulation of younger individuals.