I’m attracted to a woman who has multiple screws loose

r/

I (21M) have been “seeing” this woman (24F) who is a diagnosed with ASPD and exhibits basically every sign of a sociopath. On top of being a sociopath, she’s also got a hint of the tism, is a little insane, and super kinky.

The first “red flag” was when she told me her favorite sport is hunting. She doesn’t shoot animals. She stalks with knives or machetes and pounces on small animals like rabbits. I went over to her house one day, and she said she wanted to go hunting. This was before I knew she didn’t use guns, so we went to her hunting spot out of town, and she dead ass crouched down for about 2 hours waiting for a deer to come towards her. She killed the deer, but the buck hit her in the chest pretty hard. I took her to the emergency room. She didn’t want to eat the deer, she just wanted to kill it. “Red flag” number one.

Second “red flag” is the way she reacts to what some would call “tragic” news. We were watching the news one morning after I slept over and it was covering some shooting at a school in like Indiana or something. She laughed to herself a little before resuming eating her breakfast. I didn’t ask her about it.

The third red flag happened today. She proposed we started going out. She was pretty stern about it, saying she wanted me to be her dog. She’s never had a partner before (I wonder why) but she said she wants to “try me”.

I can’t lie, I’m super attracted to her. She’s HOT as hell, and even though she’s a little crazy, she’s really sweet when she’s with me and we watch movies or whatever. I know it’s probably a TERRIBLE idea to date this girl, but I honestly really want to. I don’t care if she has a few screws loose. Who doesn’t? She’s a kinky bitch too, as I’ve seen the type of shit she searches for on the hub (she very casually and openly admitted she does some wild shit to herself, like burning herself with wax and pushing knives on her throat) and I lowkey kinda fuck with it.

I can’t just tell people though “yeah I’m dating this girl who is a sociopath on top of being a little coo coo” so that’s my confession for the day.

Comments

  1. Head_Umpire3635 Avatar

    Bro you’re just like me for real🤣🤣🤣. I’d def date her. Even though iin 6 months you’re probably gonna hate your life 🤣

  2. pastelskark Avatar

    Don’t romanticize her mental health it’s gonna hurt you both in the long run. If you like her for her that’s different if it’s only because of the way her mental health affects her you’re not good for her.

  3. Cazime-Dez Avatar

    My Brother In Christ, she doesn’t just have a few screws loose, she’s on her way to becoming a serial killer. Harming small animals for fun is one of the biggest signs of someone going down that route.

    Please for the love of God do not get involved with her, you are going to end up in a ditch.

    Ignore your dick. There are better looking women who are way better and safer.

  4. outlawsecrets Avatar

    You’re in it, man. Killing animals with her knives (very personal) without eating the meat is fucked up though. Be careful. Your dick is definitely leading the charge right now. Don’t get it chopped off.

  5. captainzigzag Avatar

    As long as you know what you’re getting into brother; buckle up, enjoy the ride, and always tell somebody where you are 😉

  6. Impossible-Peach-815 Avatar

    This is like one of those things you wind up seeing on True Crime years later.

  7. IntroductionSmooth Avatar

    Just don’t, dude. This is going to end badly. I shouldn’t have to say this.

  8. u399566 Avatar

    > I think I love her bro

    Don’t. Just don’t. Shirt will go downhill faster than you can say ‘fuck this shit’ and it will all end in a massive disaster.

    Don’t ask my why I know..

  9. Sufficient_Pin5642 Avatar

    I need to know more about this buck situation. How did she get this animal to come to her?

  10. james-HIMself Avatar

    Ever since the 4chan community got taken offline the crazies had to come somewhere

  11. Bubs_the_Canadian Avatar

    ASPD is not a “few screws loose” man. If it’s really ASPD and not something that was misdiagnosed, she’s incapable of any real empathy. She will be sweet and kinky and fun until you become burdensome in any way (which might not take very much) and then it will turn, or she could become incredibly possessive, since she could be lying about ASPD but have more BPD traits. There is almost no way this doesn’t end badly for you given how young you both are and how seemingly not interested in any help she seems to be.

    If you piss her off, she could very legitimately kill you or seriously hurt you man. That’s not a joke. The pussy might be great, and I’m sure it is, honestly, but it won’t be worth it.

  12. CyberClaws7112 Avatar

    I’m weird myself in a lot of ways, but anything with animals getting purposefully hurt for no reason I ain’t fuckin with

  13. DirtyBulma Avatar

    Damn, this girl sounds like a wild ride. I get why you’re into her—the unpredictability, the madness, there’s something raw about it. But let’s be real: she’s a walking red flag. I mean, killin’ animals with knives? That’s next-level crazy. I’m sure it excites you, but u gotta step back and think about where this is goin’.

    You’re gettin’ pulled into her chaos, and yeah, it feels good now. But this isn’t harmless fun. She wants to dominate, control you like her pet? That’s a whole different thing. It’s not just kinky—it’s dangerous. And deep down, u know it’s prob a terrible idea.

    But hey, I won’t judge. There’s something compelling about the danger, but make sure u’re not gettin’ caught up in a game that’s a lot harder to leave than you think.

    💋

  14. colofire Avatar

    I’d be down to take that deer to butcher. Wild venison is crazy expensive. Could put it in the freezer

  15. CarrtoonJack Avatar

    I do understand, brother. Just be safe.

  16. Fading01 Avatar

    Don’t stick ur dick in crazy.

  17. MrsBarbarian Avatar

    I wish people would research these things. Sociopath and psychopath mean THE SAME THING…whatever you see YouTube”psychologists” say. They were words invented by different people at the same time to mean the same thing. The correct medical term is Antisocial Personality Disorder. This woman IS a sociopath…. IS a psychopath.

  18. dargeus95 Avatar

    There is an old saying… Don’t stick your dick in crazy. This woman is walking “false rape accusation”.

  19. chunkyasparagus Avatar

    I know your dick is saying “go for it!”, but here’s something to think about before you do.

    In the future, one of two things is going to happen:

    1. You will stay together forever, maybe get married, have kids etc. Or,

    2. You will break up at some point. When this happens you and her will likely not be on good terms (maybe one of you doesn’t want to break up). Are you sure you can handle this situation in a way that keeps yourself safe?

    It’s just something to think about, because now is the easiest time to back out if you’re at all worried about it. Once you get more and more in love with her, it’s just going to get harder and harder.

  20. heinousanus85 Avatar

    There’s a popular saying: “don’t put your dick in crazy “.

  21. someonefr0msomewhere Avatar

    Commenting so I can see what happens later on lol good luck OP🫡