Friends I have now do not know about my past. For a while I was homeless and desperate. I hooked up with a lot of men for money to keep going. The encounters took place in alleys and other random places. I had a number of bad encounters with men who didn’t care about consent. I worry friends I have now will find out and bail on me.
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If they bail there no actually your friend
If they abandon you because you were desperate and trying to survive, they weren’t your friends to begin with and you’re better off without them.
People do what they have to do. There’s no handbook for life. If they can’t hang, you don’t want them around being judgy when they’ve no doubt done things they aren’t happy about. Stay strong.
How will they find out? If you’re done with that life you need to get out of that area where you may be known for that.
You would be surprised how sucessful you cab become with something so simple as changing where you currently are.
I think most people can handle most things. My friend did sugar daddy services in college. I personally did not give a fuck. I supported her, lend her an ear when she figured out it was not for her, and she has a masters in psychology now. Past events don’t dictate your future, nor friends.
No judgment here! If they are truly your friends, then your past will not matter.
Every worthwhile person i know has a dark time behind them. Soldier on, the right people will not care.
Stop doing drugs
If I found out I wouldn’t abandon a friend for something like that, we all do what we have to do to survive. If they’re truly friends they’ll be supporting