I’ve been thinking about trying MFM with my husband, and while it seems like such a common fantasy, I don’t hear many people actually going through with it. For those who’ve tried it, was it as great as you imagined? For those who haven’t, what’s the reason you wouldn’t? I’m just curious why something so popular as a fantasy doesn’t always translate into reality.
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Many straight men aren’t willing to try MFM and many women view bisexual men as gay and won’t date a bi man so this version of the threesome fantasy is much less common due to homophobia and misandry.
Fantasies are controlled and the outcome is known, they’re not dynamic.
When you make them a reality, all variables come into play and you have very little control, if any, over any of them.
Fantasy leaves and real emotions and insecurities kick in. You can stop fantasizing, but you can’t unfeel/see something that didn’t pan out.
It’s risky for the majority of people, so they leave it to fantasy.
There is a wide stretch between fantasies and reality. It requires a lot of communication and planning and safety among all the participants, and it isn’t always simple.
Because while 2 dicks for your wife is hot in therory. Shareing your wife with another man and seeing him be with your wife for many men is not hot. We do Me her and a dildo to experience mfm